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I'm actually going to the dentist now (not literally in car right now, but am leaving now); but tomorrow I will be at school. I know I shouldn't have waited! Tomorrow, I will be in Irvine; so my plan is to go to UCI campus police office or whatever it is called and tell them tomorrow so as to alert them that I am having a problem.
Again, thanx, guys. I know I would not be going to the police if you guys didn't emphasize it. I hate things like this, and I'm the type of person that hopes it stops. I had an ex bf that wouldn't stop stalking me, (yeah, I've got a billion stalkers) and I didn't report it until it was too late. He did like a bunch of stuff, including bashing my current boyfriend's car.
Seeing myself type this on the screen just made me realize what a dummy I am. How do I not learn from past mistakes? How do I let things get out of hand? How do I become the object of these psychos?
Well, off to get my teeth worked on.
I'll be back online tonite.
See ya guys.
Again, thanx, guys. I know I would not be going to the police if you guys didn't emphasize it. I hate things like this, and I'm the type of person that hopes it stops. I had an ex bf that wouldn't stop stalking me, (yeah, I've got a billion stalkers) and I didn't report it until it was too late. He did like a bunch of stuff, including bashing my current boyfriend's car.
Seeing myself type this on the screen just made me realize what a dummy I am. How do I not learn from past mistakes? How do I let things get out of hand? How do I become the object of these psychos?
Well, off to get my teeth worked on.
I'll be back online tonite.
See ya guys.
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From: so cal djmota=oscar
Rep Power: 323 the guy is a social reject and probably has no idea how to act properly . I would say write him an email explaining that he is scaring you and all around freaking you out. State CLEARLY that you have zero interest in him as a friend, aquaintance or anything else (mean but ya got to do it) also state that you have notified the school about his actions and that it has to stop NOW. let him know that this will be the last..one and only email that you will write him. my .02.....carry pepper spray 
good luck
good luck 
Originally posted by greatcasa
1. Save all of his emails. Don't respond
2. Contact the police immidiately, and show them the emails and say everything you've told us with even more detail
3. Tell boyfried. If boyfried gets jealous, get new boyfriend.
4. If you see him again and he approaches you, tell him flat out. I'm not you're friend and we will never be friends. I demand that you leave me alone. I have already contacted authorities on this matter, and you are only hurting the situation further. I you continue to persist I will have to take further legal action. I want to have absolutely no contact whatsoever: verbal, physical, or written. Then walk away. Don't tell him what a loser he is or that you're going to get a bunch of guys to beat his a**. This will only make the situation worse. State just he facts that you want no contact and thats it. This way you have completely established that you want no contact with him. If he continues to do anything, your case is even that more valid.
Don't take this lightly. You should have reported this a lot earlier. My mom used to deal with rape counseling and a lot of cases started out this way, and the women kept saying if he does it again I'll report it. You need to report this guy immidiately. If you'd like some more help on the situation, PM me and I'll give you my phone number and you can feel free to call and ask anything you'd like.
1. Save all of his emails. Don't respond
2. Contact the police immidiately, and show them the emails and say everything you've told us with even more detail
3. Tell boyfried. If boyfried gets jealous, get new boyfriend.
4. If you see him again and he approaches you, tell him flat out. I'm not you're friend and we will never be friends. I demand that you leave me alone. I have already contacted authorities on this matter, and you are only hurting the situation further. I you continue to persist I will have to take further legal action. I want to have absolutely no contact whatsoever: verbal, physical, or written. Then walk away. Don't tell him what a loser he is or that you're going to get a bunch of guys to beat his a**. This will only make the situation worse. State just he facts that you want no contact and thats it. This way you have completely established that you want no contact with him. If he continues to do anything, your case is even that more valid.
Don't take this lightly. You should have reported this a lot earlier. My mom used to deal with rape counseling and a lot of cases started out this way, and the women kept saying if he does it again I'll report it. You need to report this guy immidiately. If you'd like some more help on the situation, PM me and I'll give you my phone number and you can feel free to call and ask anything you'd like.
That guy is a reject, also some guys don't know how to act or treat a woman, I see it all the time. On guy met a friend at school, they both happen to hang at the same dance club and this guy was asking her to wear certain revealing, and easily removable clothing and asked her if he can put his hands in her pants and ****...that fugged...then the dumb chick invites him over when her parents are gone but a friend is there. The friend leaves the room and this guy locks her in the closet with him and tried to feel her up and kiss her and stuff....I expect to hear about the occasionaly dope in the world, but I keep hearing more stories...just lame.
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Rep Power: 0 Originally posted by Squirt724
dude...what's w/ the guys at uci? i have a friend at uci and she has the same exact situation
dude...what's w/ the guys at uci? i have a friend at uci and she has the same exact situation
anyway yea
you need to contact somebody and get a restraining order or something before the guy goes completely insane on you and tries to do some sick ****
or hit him in the face with a shovel or something
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