Originally Posted by johnbt23

we were official for a month, but we were close friends for the longest time.....

Originally Posted by qijian

think of it this way... you can now swim in the ocean looking for mermaids again. while in the mean time modify your ride like theres no tommorow and use it to show your mermaid what your sea chariot looks like

Originally Posted by TOEnail

cheer up john..there's always the advise me and regis gave to kyle.

Originally Posted by qijian

are the shocks still in good condish? i need some replacements if anything if they're stiill good

Originally Posted by 2005EM2

Dang, that's far. lol

I'm cool with them. I just need the rims. Thanks. Umm, I'll let you know when I'm free. If this week doesn't happen, are you willing to keep them for me for the week of the 21st? I promise it won't be really close to x-mas. If not, then another day, but I don't want to bug you to keep those for me.

Originally Posted by 2005EM2

Thanks. Lack of communication and lack of love I guess.. not sex, but the affection towards one another. She got real busy and I just couldn't stand it.. I know. But, I didn't understand right away and then she couldn't take it and of course, other reasons applied like arguing about the most stupid things and making them a bigger issue!!!

That day I went to universal studios when the gay/lesbian community had a nation wide event, Adriana (my girlfriend) and I had a blast the whole entire day.. and then, we sat in the car near my home and we started talking about our lack of communication and stuff. I kinda new we were going to break up and yes, I was a bit sad, but I learned back in January of this year the hard way.

I learned the hard way so I've learned to keep my guard up throughout the relationship, which we eventually got back together after 5 months from the initial breakup in January. Umm, I guess another reason why we broke up this time was because she knew I was keeping my guard up and I wasn't giving her all of my affection/ love to her. I mean, why, right?

I guess I'll let you guys in on what happened during the first breakup:

I cried. Yeah, real men cry. haha, well, she felt an emptiness for about a year prior to the breakup in January 2008. Wow.. I couldn't believe my ears when she told me that (she basically did not love me anymore... she saw me more as a friend). I was pissed that she didn't tell me for about a whole damn year! I was blind and was basically her little ****ing puppy, following her, taking great care of her, arguing with her, and so on. After all that, I got a slap in the face verbally, with a thank you. I was pissed and confused. I was lost and felt heartbroken.. after all, she was my first everything. Never met a girl like her. I've dated a few girls and meh, they were whatever..

I know I'm still young to say SHE IS THE BEST THERE WILL EVER BE, but I guess in a way, she sure is, because of all the moments of laughter and experiences we've been through, whether they were good, bad, or even badly ****ed up; all great learning experiences. I might have negative comments thrown at me, but I could careless. This is how I feel and I'm not one to crown myself as a pimp or some type of a playa.

Well, one day I took Adriana to her night class and it was a great while since I last saw her. I said that I'd pick her up from school as soon as she got out, but she refused and said that she would call her dad to pick her up. I insisted that it was okay and that I would pick her up. She then went on to say, "I have something to tell you, but I'll tell you after class."

After hearing what she had told me, I felt strange; felt lonely all of a sudden and then fear quickly crept in my senses. I knew something wasn't okay. I'm not sure if I exactly remember if I knew we were going to break up or not.

Sure enough, I pick her up after class and then we headed out to the park, sitting in my car, with my undivided attention for Adriana... "I don't feel the same anymore."
I knew it was over. I shed tears after an intense round of asking questions to figure out what the hell caused her to lose interest in me.

Well, don't want to talk about anymore, but I posted this up on socalcivic.com and ppl there helped me, but I didn't remember where I had posted the thread up, so I never responded to the great suggestions that people gave me.

Basically, Adriana called me out of the blue to go watch her give a speech... well, I said I'd show up, but I never went. I thought she was being a bitch and didn't want to deal with her bullshit (at this point, I was kinda moving away and I had already met someone a year older than I).

Mariana... the new girl. She's also a Mexican. (BTW, I've never been with an Asian girl.. I had a chance with some cute *** filipina [pinay], but unfortunately, she lived in Temecula!!!!!!!

Getting back on topic.. Mariana was really cool. She seemed to have insecurities just like me. This is my flaw in relationships. I thought to myself that Mariana and I, if we were to hang out or ever date, that we can both work together on the issue of insecurities and being able to accept who we are.

Let's just say, even though Adriana never found out about Mariana, which I would have careless about, Adriana soon gave me a call asking me back and that she made a horrible mistake. After weeks of indecisiveness, I finally made my mind and went back to Adriana, because I felt that she tried so much and went through so much just to win my heart. So, I felt that I made a good decision.

As for Mariana, I never thought she was into me (yeah, dumbass that I was) and as soon as she found out I was back with Adriana, she just wished me good luck, kicked me off of her myspace, facebook, multiply, flickr, and other accounts hahaha.

In conclusion, I'm always keeping my guard up and everyone should do so, because girls will come and go and there are plenty, and if the girl gets caught for lacking love or interest, dump her before she does. I've got my eyes wide open for Adriana.

Thanks for reading.. sorry, no cliffs!!!


ohh and sorry for any grammatical errors.

Originally Posted by Killzone2142

haha i dont know guys about the guard thing like serriously i have tired that but it doesnt work in realtionships like in moving forward and finding wifey. like yeah my breake up with the fob was hard and is still hard cuz i love that girl to death but you know what the best part is...the fact knowing that for the rest of her life i know i set the bar high as **** and she wont get another bf as good as me with the way her additude is serrously i feel so much better knowing that i put 100% into my realtionships over putting only 50% it shows that your more genuwine and that your not afraid of comintment or what not and that you are a real man that will be there for his woman and stand by her said and for that a real good women/girl will stand by yourside and help support you cuz you support her. basically if you have a good foundation then the realtionship will last

Originally Posted by 2005EM2

Are you two on good terms at least?

Originally Posted by Killzone2142

^lol
Johnthan well im happy you got back with your girl just stay drama free. open up to her if that is what she wants but tell her that sometimes you have to be guarded aswell. take the time to talk to her about your feeling so that she doesnt trip out on you and listen to her **** as well. dont think about the small stuff either just let it go there are big things to argue about remember that always

john sorry to hear about that man i hope everythings okay but atleast we can go out looking again. **** alex can come too lol nah but serriously sorry man i hope it was some stupid crap that caused the mess.


single ftw when it comes to money in the pocket single ftl when it come to companionship all in all guys and girls just need each other to get through life.

hows that for some deep **** kyle
Regis the Romantic fob *****

Originally Posted by lordhelmet

Where you at exactly? I'm not saying you need to go up and pick them up. I was just giving you the option if you needed them soon. They have been sitting there for 3 months and aren't going anywhere.

I usually drive to Bakersfield every week or two so I'll grab them next time I go. Most likely around the 15th. I'll hit you with a pm whenever I grab them so we can meet somewhere.

Originally Posted by lordhelmet

**** dude, I just went through the same ****ing thing. Girlfriend of 2 years. I was just in the middle of writing a big long spiel about mine but then I thought **** it....

Any ways.... I 100% agree with keeping the guard up. I did it for 2 years, gave into her wishes and let it down for 2 weeks, then we break up and it ****ing destroys me. **** letting my guard down to any one.

Originally Posted by Killzone2142

haha i dont know guys about the guard thing like serriously i have tired that but it doesnt work in realtionships like in moving forward and finding wifey. like yeah my breake up with the fob was hard and is still hard cuz i love that girl to death but you know what the best part is...the fact knowing that for the rest of her life i know i set the bar high as **** and she wont get another bf as good as me with the way her additude is serrously i feel so much better knowing that i put 100% into my realtionships over putting only 50% it shows that your more genuwine and that your not afraid of comintment or what not and that you are a real man that will be there for his woman and stand by her said and for that a real good women/girl will stand by yourside and help support you cuz you support her. basically if you have a good foundation then the realtionship will last

Originally Posted by lordhelmet

Well, here is my experience with the guard thing: I leave guard up for 2 years. I let guard down. Down means completely ****ing down. Tell her everything I'm thinking about everything. Goes great (or so I think). We break up two weeks later.

Educate me on how letting my guard down works? My experiences seem to tell me it doesn't.

I'm 20 years old. Not looking for a wifey at this time.

Originally Posted by Killzone2142

haha im 23 and due to future career i want wifey not gold diggy lol
last relationship failed not becvause my guard was down but because of lack of understanding what eahc other felt. we both communicated how we felt i told her (thao aka the fob) how i felt for her and how she would make me feel when she had her temper tamtumes and she would tell me how she would feel when i didnt give her what she wanted or did what she said. when i say let your guard down im not saying get walked over and stepped on. stand up for you feel is right and what you value but speak up about your feeling and emotions if thao could have understood the american culture and english better and likewise i understood the vietnamese culture and language our relationship could have lasted. im not gonna say should have could have would have because i made mistakes and she made mistakes. like the reason why we broke up the first time was because i hung out with one of my friends that is a girl and thao was jealous over her because she thought she was pretty. know every1 who knows me knows asian>white but cuz of her fobbiness she belived asian<white if you guys want to see what she looks like just go to D1 and ask for jessica. thats my friend to me shes just okay but thao thought she was super hot. i dunno. the last time we broke up was because my boss told her something as a generality and she took it all offensive as if it was comming from me and i didnt have any idea of what was said and so for that we broke up she could get over the fact that it doesnt matter what other people say or do or tell you or even know about the relationship ibecause guess what they arent in the relationship it only matters what the guy wants and what the girl wants

Originally Posted by kcari

less words - more pictures of girls
thanks

Originally Posted by johnbt23

yeah, we are still friends didn't end bad at all.

Originally Posted by johnbt23

yeah, i dont need the advice as much as kyle does i've been doing the relationship thang for along time, and ive experienced all the good, and bad...

Originally Posted by 2005EM2

Definition of PIMP lol

Originally Posted by johnbt23

nah, i would call myself a veteran of dramaworld

Originally Posted by Killzone2142

haha i dont know guys about the guard thing like serriously i have tired that but it doesnt work in realtionships like in moving forward and finding wifey. like yeah my breake up with the fob was hard and is still hard cuz i love that girl to death but you know what the best part is...the fact knowing that for the rest of her life i know i set the bar high as **** and she wont get another bf as good as me with the way her additude is serrously i feel so much better knowing that i put 100% into my realtionships over putting only 50% it shows that your more genuwine and that your not afraid of comintment or what not and that you are a real man that will be there for his woman and stand by her said and for that a real good women/girl will stand by yourside and help support you cuz you support her. basically if you have a good foundation then the realtionship will last

Originally Posted by 2005EM2

Thanks. Lack of communication and lack of love I guess.. not sex, but the affection towards one another. She got real busy and I just couldn't stand it.. I know. But, I didn't understand right away and then she couldn't take it and of course, other reasons applied like arguing about the most stupid things and making them a bigger issue!!!

That day I went to universal studios when the gay/lesbian community had a nation wide event, Adriana (my girlfriend) and I had a blast the whole entire day.. and then, we sat in the car near my home and we started talking about our lack of communication and stuff. I kinda new we were going to break up and yes, I was a bit sad, but I learned back in January of this year the hard way.

I learned the hard way so I've learned to keep my guard up throughout the relationship, which we eventually got back together after 5 months from the initial breakup in January. Umm, I guess another reason why we broke up this time was because she knew I was keeping my guard up and I wasn't giving her all of my affection/ love to her. I mean, why, right?

I guess I'll let you guys in on what happened during the first breakup:

I cried. Yeah, real men cry. haha, well, she felt an emptiness for about a year prior to the breakup in January 2008. Wow.. I couldn't believe my ears when she told me that (she basically did not love me anymore... she saw me more as a friend). I was pissed that she didn't tell me for about a whole damn year! I was blind and was basically her little ****ing puppy, following her, taking great care of her, arguing with her, and so on. After all that, I got a slap in the face verbally, with a thank you. I was pissed and confused. I was lost and felt heartbroken.. after all, she was my first everything. Never met a girl like her. I've dated a few girls and meh, they were whatever..

I know I'm still young to say SHE IS THE BEST THERE WILL EVER BE, but I guess in a way, she sure is, because of all the moments of laughter and experiences we've been through, whether they were good, bad, or even badly ****ed up; all great learning experiences. I might have negative comments thrown at me, but I could careless. This is how I feel and I'm not one to crown myself as a pimp or some type of a playa.

Well, one day I took Adriana to her night class and it was a great while since I last saw her. I said that I'd pick her up from school as soon as she got out, but she refused and said that she would call her dad to pick her up. I insisted that it was okay and that I would pick her up. She then went on to say, "I have something to tell you, but I'll tell you after class."

After hearing what she had told me, I felt strange; felt lonely all of a sudden and then fear quickly crept in my senses. I knew something wasn't okay. I'm not sure if I exactly remember if I knew we were going to break up or not.

Sure enough, I pick her up after class and then we headed out to the park, sitting in my car, with my undivided attention for Adriana... "I don't feel the same anymore."
I knew it was over. I shed tears after an intense round of asking questions to figure out what the hell caused her to lose interest in me.

Well, don't want to talk about anymore, but I posted this up on socalcivic.com and ppl there helped me, but I didn't remember where I had posted the thread up, so I never responded to the great suggestions that people gave me.

Basically, Adriana called me out of the blue to go watch her give a speech... well, I said I'd show up, but I never went. I thought she was being a bitch and didn't want to deal with her bullshit (at this point, I was kinda moving away and I had already met someone a year older than I).

Mariana... the new girl. She's also a Mexican. (BTW, I've never been with an Asian girl.. I had a chance with some cute *** filipina [pinay], but unfortunately, she lived in Temecula!!!!!!!

Getting back on topic.. Mariana was really cool. She seemed to have insecurities just like me. This is my flaw in relationships. I thought to myself that Mariana and I, if we were to hang out or ever date, that we can both work together on the issue of insecurities and being able to accept who we are.

Let's just say, even though Adriana never found out about Mariana, which I would have careless about, Adriana soon gave me a call asking me back and that she made a horrible mistake. After weeks of indecisiveness, I finally made my mind and went back to Adriana, because I felt that she tried so much and went through so much just to win my heart. So, I felt that I made a good decision.

As for Mariana, I never thought she was into me (yeah, dumbass that I was) and as soon as she found out I was back with Adriana, she just wished me good luck, kicked me off of her myspace, facebook, multiply, flickr, and other accounts hahaha.

In conclusion, I'm always keeping my guard up and everyone should do so, because girls will come and go and there are plenty, and if the girl gets caught for lacking love or interest, dump her before she does. I've got my eyes wide open for Adriana.

Thanks for reading.. sorry, no cliffs!!!


ohh and sorry for any grammatical errors.

Originally Posted by qijian

chickity china, the chinese chicken!

Originally Posted by TemjinX2

sorry it didn't work out. The first serious one is always the hardest.

But yeah girls come and go, so just focus on friends and family.

Originally Posted by qijian

forget the past, and just live on. think positive!

Originally Posted by qijian

chickity china, the chinese chicken!