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I have a 96 ex. I am at my wits end on this issue and can’t figure it out. The car runs and idles perfectly. But when it’s cold and I start it and put it either in reverse or drive the car stalls and dies. I can start it back up runs fine unless I put it in reverse or drive. If it’s warmed up it doesn’t do it. No check engine lights. I have changed the idle control valve three times. I am completely running out of any solutions. Any help with be greatly appreciated! Please help me solve this problem.

 
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Oe or aftermarket iac?

 
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It’s a denso. The OE was bad. I replaced it with another brand and it idled horrible and barely ran. So I bought a more expensive Denso brand and it’s been idling perfect just can’t figure out the dying issue when I shift it.