1997 Honda Civic hx (coupe)
135k on shell
H22a swap 70k on engine
Skunk2 exhaust
After market wheels
No rust
Decent paint
Supper clean interior
What's it worth ???

The value of your car will vary greatly on where you live and what people are willing to pay for it. Almost impossible for anybody online to accurately assess it's value especially without pictures.

Well I put 5k in it will I get anywhere near that?

I personally wouldn't pay anything close to 5k for a car that old. I bought my 2000 Si for $4k with a bunch of goodies thrown in (three sets of rims, steering rack, etc). Had a new paintjob too.

I'd think 3k is a lot to ask even.