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so i got my retrofit completed...however i used an H4 harness that plugs into one side of the stock harness and then has 2 relays and 2 female adaptors on each end with 2 grounds, then 2 positives that go to the battery. now the problem; i tried it on my stock headlights and the brights are on, but when i REALLY turn them on with the wand, the regular lights come on also .... when i had it plugged into my ballasts it said the brights were on as well and then my fogs wouldnt turn on regardless of which position the wand was in. anyone got any advice?????? i dont really understand why this is happening. thanks