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Originally Posted by EliteCivicEX01
yeah, i feel ya Ryan. but ur newest GF (Sabrina) is soooo much better right? i think she's a sweet, great girl for you and dunno her THAT well even. 
Ok well u just showed urself one of my main points...........I felt the same as you and trust me it was worse.....Tryn having someone sleep with someone else and come home to you and you cant do anything about it b/c the semester doesnt end for another 2 months....And then having that person tell u they love u both and dont know who they want and use you for your moeny.........................I never thought i would find anyone else and i wasnt even looking when i found sabrina i didnt even try the night i met her i was just my self and it worked out great..............So guess what there is someone out there for u to.........
And my boy Peter i had to pick him up from the airport b/c his gf just broke up with him....You know why he was up in N.Y. B/c he was sup to drive down with her to help her move here and start a new life together........
And i wana talk to this rick guy he seems like he knows his ****
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Rep Power: 294 wow, sorry it took so long, but i just read your novel of a post. that is a real tear-jerker man. im sorry to hear that but @ the same time glad to see even THAT trial could be dealt with. from that, i can tell you are a rather strong individual. thats more than i can say for myself. i still to this day feel sooo dependent and i hate it. its weird to say but yeah, i ALMOST support myself as far as the lil things go and bills and whatnot...but when it comes to "other" stuff, i feel like i need to depend on some1. i.e.- a girl in my life. which is kinda contradictory becuz ive only had 2...both of us b/t the months of sept. and jan. of the past 2 years. weird.
but anyways, im not gonna go on and on about it. but thanks David for the story. that is definitely a positive for me. i appreciate it a bunch!
~Joey
but anyways, im not gonna go on and on about it. but thanks David for the story. that is definitely a positive for me. i appreciate it a bunch!
~Joey
Originally Posted by Kaos-style
Yo man i know what ur going through. Love can be one of the hardest things 2 get over is thats is what u truley have. I was 17 and i thought i meet the love of my life. I was working at a skatting rink at the time and was introduced to this amazing girl named Elizabeth. Right then and there i spent my days working there rtalking 2 her and getting 2 nkow her better. We meet at the rink every friday and sat night 2 see each other and spent countless hours on the phone and on the computer. In my mind this girl was the one. Well after talking for 3 months i finally asked her 2 be my girl. It was heaven from the on. Its like we were on cloud 9. Life was great it was easy and no worries. All my friends became her friends and we had so much fun hanging out and doinf what couples do.
The boyfriend she had b4 really messed with her head so she had the scares from that so we were not sexual with each other until 2 years into our relationship. We both lost our virginity 2 each other which i thought was great. She must really love me and i know i love her 2 death. Well we spent total of 4 years 2gether. Alot of up and downs like normal couples. I even stopped working on my car 2 buy her an engagment ring that my jewler was letting me pay off and she had no idea. Well i was there when alot of trials in her life came i got her off of drugs and got her 2 finsih school. Her family loved me everybody in her family told her i was so great for her. Well how it all ended was pretty bad. I was on my home from getting milk at a store. When i see her driving past me after i have left her house and it was about 10:00 at night. Well she didnt have a cell phone so i called her mom and asked is Elizabeth home. She said no she went 2 the movies with one of her friends. Well u guys didnt know my girl but the only friends she had were my friends.
So i waited 2 the next day 2 call her. Called her and asked what she did last niight after i left. She said i went the the movies with Kellie a girl from my nail tech class. I said ohh ok but y so late. She said she had an extra ticket so she called me. But the way i caughy her driving was in the opposite direction of the movies. So i asked more?'s. Asked her y she was going the other way. Her replie was going 2 get ice cream. But next 2 the movie's there is and ice cream place. She said ohh that one was closed. So i got all heated and called her a lier. Well she started crying and said u dont believe me. I said sounds shady. Well she said i cant believe u dont trust me and she said i cant take this and she said it was over. So i was pissed so i went 2 her house 2 talk 2 her face 2 face. Well i didnt reslove much and i left. I let a week go by and went 2 go see her. She was truly over us. After 4 years she truly was. That day i found out 2 days after we broke up she was already seeing some other guy which through my heart into my mouth. I was yelling and screaming and she was yelling and crying. Saying she loves me but cant be with me. I was like WTF kinda **** is that. The i got close 2 her face and i asked her did u cheat on me with him. She got real close 2 my face and said maybe i did maybe i didnt. That right there was the first time i have ever wabted 2 hit a girl. But i didnt. Well the fight ended with her in the bathroom telling me 2 get the fu** out of her house. After 4 years thats how it ended. Its like it didnt mean anything 2 her she already had someone new.
I was so ready 2 die then. I was dpressed and i was doing stupid thing im not proud of or ganna say. Well its been a year since are break up and im doing just fine. It takes time 2 heal from "LOVE". BUt my friends kept me going by calling every weekend 2 go do things and meet new girls and ****. U just have 2 stay busy Joey. Ur ganna think about her but u just have 2 stay busy as possible. U will soon start 2 forget about her. Im not saying u will completely forget about but it will be less and less. So i know what ur going through man i feel u. I have no idea what happen with ur friends. BUt if they were relly ur friends they will take u back and help u through this. Friends are for life sometimes gf are just for the moment. Hope this helps bro and i have ur number so ill hit u up later or even on AIM.
The boyfriend she had b4 really messed with her head so she had the scares from that so we were not sexual with each other until 2 years into our relationship. We both lost our virginity 2 each other which i thought was great. She must really love me and i know i love her 2 death. Well we spent total of 4 years 2gether. Alot of up and downs like normal couples. I even stopped working on my car 2 buy her an engagment ring that my jewler was letting me pay off and she had no idea. Well i was there when alot of trials in her life came i got her off of drugs and got her 2 finsih school. Her family loved me everybody in her family told her i was so great for her. Well how it all ended was pretty bad. I was on my home from getting milk at a store. When i see her driving past me after i have left her house and it was about 10:00 at night. Well she didnt have a cell phone so i called her mom and asked is Elizabeth home. She said no she went 2 the movies with one of her friends. Well u guys didnt know my girl but the only friends she had were my friends.
So i waited 2 the next day 2 call her. Called her and asked what she did last niight after i left. She said i went the the movies with Kellie a girl from my nail tech class. I said ohh ok but y so late. She said she had an extra ticket so she called me. But the way i caughy her driving was in the opposite direction of the movies. So i asked more?'s. Asked her y she was going the other way. Her replie was going 2 get ice cream. But next 2 the movie's there is and ice cream place. She said ohh that one was closed. So i got all heated and called her a lier. Well she started crying and said u dont believe me. I said sounds shady. Well she said i cant believe u dont trust me and she said i cant take this and she said it was over. So i was pissed so i went 2 her house 2 talk 2 her face 2 face. Well i didnt reslove much and i left. I let a week go by and went 2 go see her. She was truly over us. After 4 years she truly was. That day i found out 2 days after we broke up she was already seeing some other guy which through my heart into my mouth. I was yelling and screaming and she was yelling and crying. Saying she loves me but cant be with me. I was like WTF kinda **** is that. The i got close 2 her face and i asked her did u cheat on me with him. She got real close 2 my face and said maybe i did maybe i didnt. That right there was the first time i have ever wabted 2 hit a girl. But i didnt. Well the fight ended with her in the bathroom telling me 2 get the fu** out of her house. After 4 years thats how it ended. Its like it didnt mean anything 2 her she already had someone new.
I was so ready 2 die then. I was dpressed and i was doing stupid thing im not proud of or ganna say. Well its been a year since are break up and im doing just fine. It takes time 2 heal from "LOVE". BUt my friends kept me going by calling every weekend 2 go do things and meet new girls and ****. U just have 2 stay busy Joey. Ur ganna think about her but u just have 2 stay busy as possible. U will soon start 2 forget about her. Im not saying u will completely forget about but it will be less and less. So i know what ur going through man i feel u. I have no idea what happen with ur friends. BUt if they were relly ur friends they will take u back and help u through this. Friends are for life sometimes gf are just for the moment. Hope this helps bro and i have ur number so ill hit u up later or even on AIM.
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Rep Power: 294 gawd, you guys are ALLLLL on point. i just read up on your post down below. i cant say that ive ever seen/talked to you or even seen you post really...but bro, you rock. i especially like the part about "you gotta be strong...u drive a Civic." i hear ya loud and clear. us Civic ppls gotta try 1000X harder to NOT fit into the rice category of the tuner scene...and that DOES take a strong person. very good insight there man! other than that, the rest of it is well-versed as well. thanks for sharing the story, and in time, i too will get over this. i agree about the calling/contact thing too btw. it hasnt worked out to this day...so why the hell should i even try anymore.
btw guys (every1)...Jen was chased by the Police last night at the Challenger Pkwy race portion of the OF Meet. she was driving...not Tony. seem a lil coincidental that i begged her NOT to go out there when i did speak to her for all of 5 minutes last night? i think not. i call it a sign...or like Pat/Tara said about karma. wowzers! in the end tho, i hear she got away.
wonderful huh? suspended license, new boy-toy, not in her city, running from the police in a BRIGHT YELLOW modded Evo. yeeeeeeeeah, thats what i want/need/desire in life. notsomuch buddy. notsomuchatall....haha.
rock on 7thGen'ers. much luv!
~Joey
btw guys (every1)...Jen was chased by the Police last night at the Challenger Pkwy race portion of the OF Meet. she was driving...not Tony. seem a lil coincidental that i begged her NOT to go out there when i did speak to her for all of 5 minutes last night? i think not. i call it a sign...or like Pat/Tara said about karma. wowzers! in the end tho, i hear she got away.
wonderful huh? suspended license, new boy-toy, not in her city, running from the police in a BRIGHT YELLOW modded Evo. yeeeeeeeeah, thats what i want/need/desire in life. notsomuch buddy. notsomuchatall....haha.
rock on 7thGen'ers. much luv!
~Joey
Originally Posted by 2K1Civic17"Gabe
Love is a rough thing. Me and my girl just broke up after 4 years and a child 2 weeks ago. She talked me into going out of town w/ both kids right before she broke up w/me. That was the hardest trip of my life. She has lied to me constantly since we broke up, and I dont trust a word she says. I was feeling just as low as you are (other than endangering others lives, think about yourself and others). I am now doing awesome, and realize she lost a lot. I am bout to make 1,000+ weekly as compared to my 250-300/week. What I realized to make me happyu and get over her though is this:
You can not control somebody elses life. No matter how much you want to, you can not do it.
I called up some old friends, and we partied. This is the easiest way to get over somebody, especially if you go out and talk to new girls. (Im getting new clothes, and staying so fresh and so clean for them)
Realize she doesnt deserve you. You loved/cared for her, but she didnt do the same. Find somebody that will treat you just as good as you treat them. You deserve somebody better than her. This is how my girl and I lasted 4 years.
She is still treating me like sh**, but I just dont care now. With how she treats me, I feel there is no way I would want to get back with somebody who can do that. Especially when we were together 4 year, she should have some respect as I do for her. Dont ever call her, that is a bad mistake. The more you call and want to know whats going on, the more you will push her away. Just start a different life now. I only had 1 friend when dating my ex. I had over 150 friends before I met her. Gave them all up for her (which was apparently my decision). I am just starting my life over now. A breakup is an awesome way to move forward in life. It means time for a change, and you can make it as positive or negative as youd like. It can destroy a person, or make them very strong. Anybody with a civic is a strong person, with all the crap we put up with from other people, hehe. Dont let it get you down, be strong
be strong
dont call her
dont let yourself get jealous (she cant do that to you, you let yourself get jealous)
You dont need her, you are better off
any relationship 24/7 wont work. You need balance in your life
-----friends, relationship, work, hobbies, and 2 others I forget, need to be evenly
-----balanced with your time
a bunch more too, just work on it, and youll be strong
You can not control somebody elses life. No matter how much you want to, you can not do it.
I called up some old friends, and we partied. This is the easiest way to get over somebody, especially if you go out and talk to new girls. (Im getting new clothes, and staying so fresh and so clean for them)
Realize she doesnt deserve you. You loved/cared for her, but she didnt do the same. Find somebody that will treat you just as good as you treat them. You deserve somebody better than her. This is how my girl and I lasted 4 years.
She is still treating me like sh**, but I just dont care now. With how she treats me, I feel there is no way I would want to get back with somebody who can do that. Especially when we were together 4 year, she should have some respect as I do for her. Dont ever call her, that is a bad mistake. The more you call and want to know whats going on, the more you will push her away. Just start a different life now. I only had 1 friend when dating my ex. I had over 150 friends before I met her. Gave them all up for her (which was apparently my decision). I am just starting my life over now. A breakup is an awesome way to move forward in life. It means time for a change, and you can make it as positive or negative as youd like. It can destroy a person, or make them very strong. Anybody with a civic is a strong person, with all the crap we put up with from other people, hehe. Dont let it get you down, be strong
be strong
dont call her
dont let yourself get jealous (she cant do that to you, you let yourself get jealous)
You dont need her, you are better off
any relationship 24/7 wont work. You need balance in your life
-----friends, relationship, work, hobbies, and 2 others I forget, need to be evenly
-----balanced with your time
a bunch more too, just work on it, and youll be strong
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Rep Power: 287 ^^^karma is such a bitch it really is. ha. I love that. One night actually, me, patrick and his sister were driving to his older sister's house and behind us this 01 civic kept riding my bfs sister's car. Like just following so close, then swirving to be annoying then finally he cut in front and tried to speed off. So we're like whatever as we're leaving to head home we see him pulled over by a cop. The cop was writing a ticket. Karma's a bitch, you get what you deserve.
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Rep Power: 294 damn, this lonely shiat is getting epidemic here. good to know we've got a good crew on hand to work it all out together. i think your story is heart-breaking as well. especially with the losing friends, gf, AND car...wow.
day by day...thats all we can hope for. taking my mind off "things" is prolly gonna be my first plan of action. maybe i can begin focusing in on MY ride instead of hers again...i still cant believe i got her 5 of the current 9 mods on that Evo of hers. granted some were cheap, 1 was free (BOV), and others were somewhat petty in the grand scheme of things but ehhh, its the thought that counts in the end correct? owell, i guess "you live and learn and then get luvs" or some trash. LMFAO.
we're DEFINITELY all here for one another. that is fo' sho' bro! thanks for sharing.
~Joey
day by day...thats all we can hope for. taking my mind off "things" is prolly gonna be my first plan of action. maybe i can begin focusing in on MY ride instead of hers again...i still cant believe i got her 5 of the current 9 mods on that Evo of hers. granted some were cheap, 1 was free (BOV), and others were somewhat petty in the grand scheme of things but ehhh, its the thought that counts in the end correct? owell, i guess "you live and learn and then get luvs" or some trash. LMFAO.
we're DEFINITELY all here for one another. that is fo' sho' bro! thanks for sharing.
~Joey
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hey man i dont know u either but i just went trough almos the same thing that u did
now i have literally no friends no girlfriend and almost i had no car. this happened in the summer and now the only thing that changed really is that i got a new car but everything stills the same pretty much. ive dealt with it by just not thinkng about it sleeping cleaning my car. the only thing i can tell you since im almost in the same situation is to be open to your surroundings try to get new friends meet new people hang out at new places everything that doesnt remind you of your old friends/girlfriend. im ok now i hang out with whoever and just try to get trough the day plus im starting to go to college so im kinda exited about that.
now i have literally no friends no girlfriend and almost i had no car. this happened in the summer and now the only thing that changed really is that i got a new car but everything stills the same pretty much. ive dealt with it by just not thinkng about it sleeping cleaning my car. the only thing i can tell you since im almost in the same situation is to be open to your surroundings try to get new friends meet new people hang out at new places everything that doesnt remind you of your old friends/girlfriend. im ok now i hang out with whoever and just try to get trough the day plus im starting to go to college so im kinda exited about that.
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Originally Posted by Shinobi04
I hope her tranny goes out or somethin.
LOL it will. with this guy Tony behind the wheel it will...along with the clutch. stock Evo clutches are good for 6K if you're a guy. lol...Jen has almost 10K on hers so far as i can recall....thats what NOT going to track every week does for your car. heh. but yeah the tranny and clutch are the weakest link on an Evo...till you upgrade to aftermarket. my God, they are soild after that modification. but along with solidity, comes uber $$$$$$$$. heh.
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hmmmm, dunno Pat. havent heard any horrible news that i can recall about the Evo.
'cept that mommys and daddys need to stop BUYING the g-damn things for their kids so they can get all cocky n shiet. LMFAO!
'cept that mommys and daddys need to stop BUYING the g-damn things for their kids so they can get all cocky n shiet. LMFAO!
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Rep Power: 0 The thing was that mitsu employees would go to the track and see if anybody were driving there evos there. If they were, they would get the license plate and vin number and tell every dealer not to warranty that car because they were racing it. Its happened to a quite of few people already.
I've talked to you before and hung out with you on a few occasions and I know you're a strong person so I know you will pull through this. Maybe we should get a get together at my house so I can kick everybodies @ss in Halo 2. BrInG iT bIsHeS!!11!one!!11
I've talked to you before and hung out with you on a few occasions and I know you're a strong person so I know you will pull through this. Maybe we should get a get together at my house so I can kick everybodies @ss in Halo 2. BrInG iT bIsHeS!!11!one!!11
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Rep Power: 312 Yah to bad they are not allowed to do that.......Honda tried to do that to me and i told them that if they would like to tell my lawyer in court that they are going to tell me when where and how i can drive my car then they can...........And then they were like well........................................ok nm
Just like they cant take away ur warrenty for adding stuff to your car you can add what ever you want and it will not void the warrenty......ITS THE LAW! IF something goes wrong they have to run test and provide you with the results to prove the your after mrkt parts messed something up
Just like they cant take away ur warrenty for adding stuff to your car you can add what ever you want and it will not void the warrenty......ITS THE LAW! IF something goes wrong they have to run test and provide you with the results to prove the your after mrkt parts messed something up
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Mitsubushies first Evo 8's, all of them, had a recall for bad valvesprings... LOL... you DON't wanna float those cars lol. Also Mitsu's pres was arrested a little while ago because he knew about some car defects and didnt put out actual recalls for those cars, and people were dying from them....
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Rep Power: 397 BTW, BMW's if you hid the redline the ECU logs it and when you take your vehical in they can optinal void your warrenty saying you were racing lol
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