OT: not happy
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ka wa ii
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OT: not happy
i'm not happy last night.....until now, i'm having the same feeling....
a girl my age NORMALLY, might be in school, or might be working and have a decent job, or have rich a$$ parents that they dont have to worry about their future, or might be in a pretty good relationship etc...
but for me, i feel that i havent accomplish anything in life. i'm so lost. i dunno what i want anymore, i dunno what i need anymore.
for my job, i dun think i'm doing good enough. but then, i've tried my best and i am still trying my best right now but my boss is still not satisfied.
i dun have a relationship with anyone because maybe i'm too stubborn and picky all the time. but then, i just want to fine "the one", i dun want to waste time to trial and error anymore. it's so frustrating when everytime i want to try out a new relationship and it fails and i wonder if it's my problem everytime....
i dunno what will happen next because i have no goal in life. even if i can find my "goal", those are goals that i might not even get close to succeeding it...
*sigh*....i dunno...just ranting...
a girl my age NORMALLY, might be in school, or might be working and have a decent job, or have rich a$$ parents that they dont have to worry about their future, or might be in a pretty good relationship etc...
but for me, i feel that i havent accomplish anything in life. i'm so lost. i dunno what i want anymore, i dunno what i need anymore.
for my job, i dun think i'm doing good enough. but then, i've tried my best and i am still trying my best right now but my boss is still not satisfied.
i dun have a relationship with anyone because maybe i'm too stubborn and picky all the time. but then, i just want to fine "the one", i dun want to waste time to trial and error anymore. it's so frustrating when everytime i want to try out a new relationship and it fails and i wonder if it's my problem everytime....
i dunno what will happen next because i have no goal in life. even if i can find my "goal", those are goals that i might not even get close to succeeding it...
*sigh*....i dunno...just ranting...
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Rep Power: 0 hmmm... thats some pretty deep thinking... but thats wuts on lotsa peoples minds... so dont worry... ur not the only one thinkin like that...
i think the solution to all our problems is to go out and grab some
... and then some con... ahha
i think the solution to all our problems is to go out and grab some
... and then some con... ahha 
I once lost in my life as well .. until I found her ...
she motivates me ... she cares about me ... she's sensitive ... she cries for me ... she provides me with good opinions ... I believe she's the one that I am looking for !!
A person you love will change your life totally ... I believe we've talked about your attitude in a previous thread ... and you said you are bossy ... try to change your attitude a bit and I am sure you can find someone who can motivate you !
she motivates me ... she cares about me ... she's sensitive ... she cries for me ... she provides me with good opinions ... I believe she's the one that I am looking for !!
A person you love will change your life totally ... I believe we've talked about your attitude in a previous thread ... and you said you are bossy ... try to change your attitude a bit and I am sure you can find someone who can motivate you !
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Rep Power: 0 it's true Pink, it's the same topic on many of our minds.
as for jobs, in my opinion, as long as you've done your best, the outcome isn't as important.
as for relationships, i think many want to find the "right one" and skip the trial and error portion too, but sometimes if you don't try, you'll never know if they're the right one.... right?.....
don't be so down, cheer up !!!
as for jobs, in my opinion, as long as you've done your best, the outcome isn't as important.
as for relationships, i think many want to find the "right one" and skip the trial and error portion too, but sometimes if you don't try, you'll never know if they're the right one.... right?.....
don't be so down, cheer up !!!
I once lost in my life as well .. until I found her ...
she motivates me ... she cares about me ... she's sensitive ... she cries for me ... she provides me with good opinions ... I believe she's the one that I am looking for !!
A person you love will change your life totally ... I believe we've talked about your attitude in a previous thread ... and you said you are bossy ... try to change your attitude a bit and I am sure you can find someone who can motivate you !
she motivates me ... she cares about me ... she's sensitive ... she cries for me ... she provides me with good opinions ... I believe she's the one that I am looking for !!
A person you love will change your life totally ... I believe we've talked about your attitude in a previous thread ... and you said you are bossy ... try to change your attitude a bit and I am sure you can find someone who can motivate you !
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ka wa ii
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Rep Power: 0 haha..darthoe, i already went drinking...lol i was so damn drunk last night....!
and yeah guys i know about my "attitude", but i think it's because i havent found the "one" that i love. if you love a person, i think it's natural that you will treat him good....
i dunno....i want everything to just....come to me...you know what i mean? i dun want to go and LOOK for it....
and yeah guys i know about my "attitude", but i think it's because i havent found the "one" that i love. if you love a person, i think it's natural that you will treat him good....
i dunno....i want everything to just....come to me...you know what i mean? i dun want to go and LOOK for it....
i want a baby hummer :)
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Rep Power: 0 sunapollo, i almost cried reading that...
anyways, pink, you know, we're all lost and depressed sometimes of what we have in life or who we are in society. it's all part of being a young adult.
As I learned in Family Studies OAC (a sociology course), Gail Sheehy said there were 3 main tasks of being a young adult.
They are:
1) finding an identity (who are you? where do you belong? what do you like? what do you disliked? She lists 4 categories that young adults fall into)
2) finding a career
3) finding a mate
And basically, you have to figure out these things before you can go onto the next stage in life.
So it's very normal that you're thinking about these things. You will get in touch with these three categories eventually. Give yourself time to think about things.
Don't give up Pink, explore freely and most importantly, love yourself.
anyways, pink, you know, we're all lost and depressed sometimes of what we have in life or who we are in society. it's all part of being a young adult.
As I learned in Family Studies OAC (a sociology course), Gail Sheehy said there were 3 main tasks of being a young adult.
They are:
1) finding an identity (who are you? where do you belong? what do you like? what do you disliked? She lists 4 categories that young adults fall into)
2) finding a career
3) finding a mate
And basically, you have to figure out these things before you can go onto the next stage in life.
So it's very normal that you're thinking about these things. You will get in touch with these three categories eventually. Give yourself time to think about things.
Don't give up Pink, explore freely and most importantly, love yourself.
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Rep Power: 0 Dont know you, never met you, but what you gotta do is find an ABSOLUTE pasion for something and set that as your highest goal and go for it. With out soundy cheesy, you gotta find out what makes you happy everytime you think about it, for me its music, design and cars, i'm compleltly obssesed with it, and it turned out to be my career. I'm a full time graphic designer and I was just in the studio recording my first album and I just got my CAI...haha.
I know easier than it sounds, but once you find it, become compeltly obsessed with it, eat it, drink it, live it and stop at nothing to get it. 120% all the time...trust me you will get it...and you'll probably meet someone too along the way.
enuff of this, good luck.
I know easier than it sounds, but once you find it, become compeltly obsessed with it, eat it, drink it, live it and stop at nothing to get it. 120% all the time...trust me you will get it...and you'll probably meet someone too along the way.
enuff of this, good luck.
Originally posted by babychai
sunapollo, i almost cried reading that...
sunapollo, i almost cried reading that...
Last edited by Sunapollo; Mar 31, 2003 at 11:09 AM.
Originally posted by Dartheo
dont be so down... hmmm go play some counter strike
dont be so down... hmmm go play some counter strike
you know what ... this site has a clan called [7GC] ... check the gaming forum in Off topic ...
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Rep Power: 0 hey pink.........there's always BOo =)
jp..just smile..........
everyone has rough times......
someone will walk into ur life unexpectedly and make u extremely happy.............
and sometimes its the last person u would expect
......
trust me i'm anti guys..........
but u gotta give some of those *******s a chance..n u never know
just go with the flow.......n let things be.......don't stress.......go shopping!!!!!
jp..just smile..........
everyone has rough times......
someone will walk into ur life unexpectedly and make u extremely happy.............
and sometimes its the last person u would expect
......
trust me i'm anti guys..........
but u gotta give some of those *******s a chance..n u never know
just go with the flow.......n let things be.......don't stress.......go shopping!!!!!
i hope you ain't reffering to all guys SLIPSTREAM R
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Rep Power: 0 hmmm... wut exactly should be in the spaces of those *s??? haha
Originally posted by SwtAzniLLusion
hey pink.........there's always BOo =)
jp..just smile..........
everyone has rough times......
someone will walk into ur life unexpectedly and make u extremely happy.............
and sometimes its the last person u would expect
......
trust me i'm anti guys..........
but u gotta give some of those *******s a chance..n u never know
just go with the flow.......n let things be.......don't stress.......go shopping!!!!!
hey pink.........there's always BOo =)
jp..just smile..........
everyone has rough times......
someone will walk into ur life unexpectedly and make u extremely happy.............
and sometimes its the last person u would expect
......
trust me i'm anti guys..........
but u gotta give some of those *******s a chance..n u never know
just go with the flow.......n let things be.......don't stress.......go shopping!!!!!
