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haha girls are crazy...but there is two different kind of crazy..crazy bad or crazy good...
My girl is crazy..but it is crazy good....she is crazy coz she cares about me a lot and is too afraid of losing me..and I am very flattered by that...I mean I am just an ordinary guy...nothing special but she treats/think of me as someone very special..
Anyway Pink: Don't be upset.....everyone experience low points in their lives. I mean...I am like that too...I still don't know who i am.....the only thing that is keeping my head up is because of my girl..so without her I would be down like all the time.....
For bf/gf....I don't think you need to GO LOOK FOR it.....if a guy is truly suitable for u, he would come to you.....but if you are talking about your career/job...or whatever..then yes..you HAVE to go look/fight for it......but never put ur head down when things aren't going well.....just keep trying...eventually good things will happen!...good luck!!
My girl is crazy..but it is crazy good....she is crazy coz she cares about me a lot and is too afraid of losing me..and I am very flattered by that...I mean I am just an ordinary guy...nothing special but she treats/think of me as someone very special..
Anyway Pink: Don't be upset.....everyone experience low points in their lives. I mean...I am like that too...I still don't know who i am.....the only thing that is keeping my head up is because of my girl..so without her I would be down like all the time.....
For bf/gf....I don't think you need to GO LOOK FOR it.....if a guy is truly suitable for u, he would come to you.....but if you are talking about your career/job...or whatever..then yes..you HAVE to go look/fight for it......but never put ur head down when things aren't going well.....just keep trying...eventually good things will happen!...good luck!!
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i dunno....i want everything to just....come to me...you know what i mean? i dun want to go and LOOK for it....
i dunno....i want everything to just....come to me...you know what i mean? i dun want to go and LOOK for it....
I would have to agree . Looking for it requires too much work
i want a baby hummer :)
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Rep Power: 0 I used to be very unhappy because I didn't know who I was or what I wanted to be. I was never satisfied with how I did in school, or how well I played on my school teams. I put so much pressure on myself that I was depressed all the time.
And then I met this guy who changed my life completely who helped me discovered who I was and how capable I was. And this guy became my first bf.
A year later, I found out that this guy played me and I was depressed again. But except for my close friends, no one knew I was depressed. This bothered me for a coupla years.
In University, I learned that a lot of things I cared about in high school didn't matter anymore. The most obvious one was popularity. I lived by 4 words: eat, sleep, work and play, and this phrase: work hard, play hard. And that was all that was on my mind.
Towards the end of first year, I met another guy who changed my life completely. He really made me laugh. This guy gave me something that I really wanted -- laughter.
When I laughed, he laughed.
When I frowned, he did something to make me laugh.
When I worried, he tried to take care of stuff for me and then made me realize how stupid I was and I ended up laughing at myself.
When I cried, he comforted me and then made me laugh.
Just then, I thought I had the perfect life. I have good marks, I got into a great school, I have a great job, I have a caring family, I have wonderful friends and I had the ultimate boyfriend. Everyone else agreed.
Then one day, he was gone.
My friends who were having their own problems in life, told me that this event made their matters seem so small. It changed the way they were thinking completely, and eventually, they resolved it.
While everyone else was dealing with reality, I needed someone to talk to that wasn't affected. The most unexpected guy came into my life. He helped me change my complex thoughts into simple thoughts. He helped me straighten myself up and stand up to face the world again. He is healing me, gave me a reason to love again and I thank him for that. He is my raison d'être.
To make a long story short, to those thinking that some people do have perfect lives, what you see is on the surface. I have learned to be happy with I have, cherish what I had, but be optimistic about the future because I'm looking forward to what I'm going to have.
That and not all guys are jerks.
And then I met this guy who changed my life completely who helped me discovered who I was and how capable I was. And this guy became my first bf.
A year later, I found out that this guy played me and I was depressed again. But except for my close friends, no one knew I was depressed. This bothered me for a coupla years.
In University, I learned that a lot of things I cared about in high school didn't matter anymore. The most obvious one was popularity. I lived by 4 words: eat, sleep, work and play, and this phrase: work hard, play hard. And that was all that was on my mind.
Towards the end of first year, I met another guy who changed my life completely. He really made me laugh. This guy gave me something that I really wanted -- laughter.
When I laughed, he laughed.
When I frowned, he did something to make me laugh.
When I worried, he tried to take care of stuff for me and then made me realize how stupid I was and I ended up laughing at myself.
When I cried, he comforted me and then made me laugh.
Just then, I thought I had the perfect life. I have good marks, I got into a great school, I have a great job, I have a caring family, I have wonderful friends and I had the ultimate boyfriend. Everyone else agreed.
Then one day, he was gone.
My friends who were having their own problems in life, told me that this event made their matters seem so small. It changed the way they were thinking completely, and eventually, they resolved it.
While everyone else was dealing with reality, I needed someone to talk to that wasn't affected. The most unexpected guy came into my life. He helped me change my complex thoughts into simple thoughts. He helped me straighten myself up and stand up to face the world again. He is healing me, gave me a reason to love again and I thank him for that. He is my raison d'être.
To make a long story short, to those thinking that some people do have perfect lives, what you see is on the surface. I have learned to be happy with I have, cherish what I had, but be optimistic about the future because I'm looking forward to what I'm going to have.
That and not all guys are jerks.
Last edited by babychai; Mar 31, 2003 at 01:00 PM.
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gotta remember it for future uses...hahahhaa
i was lost, until i found my car......i love buying her gifts, because she treats me well, never complains and always goes where i wanna go...
hahahahahaha....sorry for s.hitting on your serious thread
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gotta remember it for future uses...hahahhaa
i was lost, until i found my car......i love buying her gifts, because she treats me well, never complains and always goes where i wanna go...
hahahahahaha....sorry for s.hitting on your serious thread
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nothing wrong with loving a car lol
you get to ride it,
if there's a problem, bring it to a mechanic...
it never hurts you intentionally........just financially.....
nothing wrong with loving a car lol
you get to ride it,
if there's a problem, bring it to a mechanic...
it never hurts you intentionally........just financially.....
Originally posted by GuSTo
raison d'etre....i like that....
gotta remember it for future uses...hahahhaa
i was lost, until i found my car......i love buying her gifts, because she treats me well, never complains and always goes where i wanna go...
hahahahahaha....sorry for s.hitting on your serious thread.....
raison d'etre....i like that....
gotta remember it for future uses...hahahhaa
i was lost, until i found my car......i love buying her gifts, because she treats me well, never complains and always goes where i wanna go...
hahahahahaha....sorry for s.hitting on your serious thread
..... 
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From: mississauga, Ontario, Canada
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raison d'etre....i like that....
gotta remember it for future uses...hahahhaa
i was lost, until i found my car......i love buying her gifts, because she treats me well, never complains and always goes where i wanna go...
hahahahahaha....sorry for s.hitting on your serious thread.....
raison d'etre....i like that....
gotta remember it for future uses...hahahhaa
i was lost, until i found my car......i love buying her gifts, because she treats me well, never complains and always goes where i wanna go...
hahahahahaha....sorry for s.hitting on your serious thread
..... werd, I luv my car. she's the bestest
