Rep Power: 257

Ok so i am trying to do my headswap today but im having the same problem that i have everytime i try and do anything electrical on this car. Maybe i'm just a little dumb but ive spent the last 15ish minutes trying to disconnect the relay. I found it okay i just cant get it disconnected. The haynes manual says depress the release tab and pull the relay up, then disconnect the electrical connector from the relay. My problem is when i depress the bottom of the tab im assuming that pushes out the top of the tab around the little clip and allows me to pull it out but it just will not pull out. Is there any other way i can do this I need some quick advice. i have fairly small hands but i just cannot get this unclipped its like there is no room.

 
Rep Power: 257

finally figured it out. ya i know it was like 5min later. Pliers are a god just keep pullin till it comes out. and next time im going to put connection grease on it thats what was causing the problem