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ok well only respond if your not going to be an *** guys, i want answers from girls even if there is only a few on here.

ok, well at my work i stay up in the front of the store, well that girl i was dating is a cashier, were cool and stuff. Well i caught her staring at me alot, not just a few times but alot. And you know how when you catch someone starting at you they stop, well she didnt!!! i was like umm ok why dont you want to go out then. well we were going to do something before she called if off because she doesnt have any time, we were going to do something this past sat. so anyways i asked her about her weekend, she said it sucked because her friends ditched her and she didnt have anything to do. well they way she said it sounded like she wished she had done something with me. So what do you people think of this?? and dont say go hit it guys

 
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i say take it slow, dont let her know u wuna get back together. kinda make it like ur doing fine so far without her like ur happy all the time everythings great. so basically be her friend for now and just hang out as friends. n then casually see how she reacts and let her make the 1st move. ive known alotta gurls and in my observations, they seem not like it wen guys give them too much attention and straight off let them know theyre intersted. but that dusnt also me giv them none. u gotta do ur own research with her and see wut makes her tick. goodluck man

 
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eh like i said before, you like her and she likes you so whats the problem. you say you both dont really have time for a relationship but so what, that doesnt mean you two have to stop talking/seeing each other. its not like you two ended on badd terms or anything you know. I dont see why she couldnt have called you that day to ask if you wanted to go out whether it was just as friends or a date. just because you two are broken up doesnt mean you cant hang out with each other anymore

 
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thats my point man

 
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exactly jus hang out as friends, and she will come around u jus gotta b patient. ur forgetting shes a "girl" and girls got issues man. u never know what the hell is running inside that thing they call a brain of theirs.

p.s. a lil story. to be honest im a hard to get guy, and to girls, they love that. they always want what they cant have. So for example 1 of my exes were so into me and was so consistent that finally i decided to giv her a chance. well it ended up that i grew on her and liked her alot. and finally she broke up with me. sed sum bs like she couldnt trust me or sumtin. its all a game to them, i was hard to get so she liked the challenge. once she won and got me, the excitement is gone and they serch for a new challenge.. girls r evil...
not all girls r like that tho..
but all girls r evil haha

 
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yeah this girl is differnt so i dont want to give up

 
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LOL dude i hate playing games and i hate girls who play games. but then again maybe thats why my relationships dont last too long. but yeah i agree, girls dont like guys who are clingy/desperate/smothering. not saying that you are/were chad but i guess just take it slow. just continue to talk to her at work and maybe after awhile ask her out again. i agree with what bopmeeh said earlier when he said, make it seem as if your doing fine without her. and in truth, you should feel that way anyway. but at the same time, dont make her overly jealous either.

 
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dont give up then just ask her if she wants to do something during the week just as just "friends" and dont be like *drool.... wanna come to my place.... drool* take her to a movie or to the beach for a while she'll see that your still interested and not a flake like her friends and will want to spend more time with you

 
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keep it casual also dont put any pressure on her to go out with you, thats where guys have a tendency of being creepie

 
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Girls love hard to get guys?

Don't play hard to get, because she'll give up (unless she's a total psycho).

Just be persistent (but not too persistent, or you'll look like a psycho). Persistent guys usually end up getting themselves a real chance.

 
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thanks for answering

i text her about 30 min ago, because shes still at work. waiting on a answer to my question

 
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well no answer from her, and i meet someone new so o well!!!!

 
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texting is so impersonal. but either way, you met someone new.. if she doesnt put out, move on to the next one that does thats just the way it goes..
good for you man

 
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off topic: wow.. you just delete posts like that? ive never been on a board so **** like. (and i post on a lot of boards)



on topic: I agree with the people who said to just hang out as friends at first.. thats the best way to take things slowly and see if theres anything to progress to.. good luck. btw. do you work at a grocery store?

 
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hey VNlilMAN delte or lock this man