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I need some help with what I should do next here.
So I decided to go back to stock with my sound system so I saw a 7thgen member, Civorama, selling a stock headunit on here and I paid him 4 weeks ago(5/1/06) for it. I got it a week or two afterward with no problem until I realised that there was a code needed to use it. So I sent him a message about it and he said he would be able to get the code to me on 5/25/06 because he wouldnt be home from school until then... so I waited then heard nothing, over the past week+ I have sent him several messages asking for the code or atleast the vin number so i can look up the code but he does not respond to them. By viewing his profile I know that he has been logged in since Iv sent those messages. I paid for it through paypal so I was wondering if there was any way to send him back the headunit and get my money back without needing his approval. It seems like if I mention it he probably wont reply to those messages either.

Any help would be great
Thanks,
Doug