would you go out with your friend?
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would you go out with your friend?
do you believe that the "friendship" between a single guy and a single gal is really just simply ... friends...or are they more than that? (when they spend alot of time alone..."chilling")
in my oppinion, i think it's more than just friends. but both will not admit to their feelings.
in my oppinion, i think it's more than just friends. but both will not admit to their feelings.
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Rep Power: 0 that famous line from when harry met sally
Harry Burns: You realize of course that we could never be friends.
Sally Albright: Why not?
Harry Burns: What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way.
Sally Albright: That's not true. I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved.
Harry Burns: No you don't.
Sally Albright: Yes I do.
Harry Burns: No you don't.
Sally Albright: Yes I do.
Harry Burns: You only think you do.
Sally Albright: You say I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?
Harry Burns: No, what I'm saying is they all WANT to have sex with you.
Sally: They do not!
Harry: Do to.
Sally: They do not.
Harry: Do to.
Sally: How do you know?
Harry: Because no man can be friends with a woman that he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her.
Sally: So, you're saying that a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive?
Harry: No. You pretty much want to nail 'em too.
Sally: What if THEY don't want to have sex with YOU?
Harry: Doesn't matter because the sex thing is already out there so the friendship is ultimately doomed and that is the end of the story.
Sally: Well, I guess we're not going to be friends then.
Harry: I guess not.
Sally: That's too bad. You were the only person I knew in New York.
but i seriously think they can be friends, although some of my guy friends say that guys and girls can't be friends...*shrug*
Harry Burns: You realize of course that we could never be friends.
Sally Albright: Why not?
Harry Burns: What I'm saying is - and this is not a come-on in any way, shape or form - is that men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way.
Sally Albright: That's not true. I have a number of men friends and there is no sex involved.
Harry Burns: No you don't.
Sally Albright: Yes I do.
Harry Burns: No you don't.
Sally Albright: Yes I do.
Harry Burns: You only think you do.
Sally Albright: You say I'm having sex with these men without my knowledge?
Harry Burns: No, what I'm saying is they all WANT to have sex with you.
Sally: They do not!
Harry: Do to.
Sally: They do not.
Harry: Do to.
Sally: How do you know?
Harry: Because no man can be friends with a woman that he finds attractive. He always wants to have sex with her.
Sally: So, you're saying that a man can be friends with a woman he finds unattractive?
Harry: No. You pretty much want to nail 'em too.
Sally: What if THEY don't want to have sex with YOU?
Harry: Doesn't matter because the sex thing is already out there so the friendship is ultimately doomed and that is the end of the story.
Sally: Well, I guess we're not going to be friends then.
Harry: I guess not.
Sally: That's too bad. You were the only person I knew in New York.
but i seriously think they can be friends, although some of my guy friends say that guys and girls can't be friends...*shrug*
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babychai knows what i'm talking about.
i really believe that when a single guy and a single girl starts to consider one another as "friends" ... it's actulally sexual...get my drift anyone?
babychai knows what i'm talking about.
i really believe that when a single guy and a single girl starts to consider one another as "friends" ... it's actulally sexual...get my drift anyone?
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Sunapollo, Aziumthx, and sg2kca you guys got the wrong idea.
babychai knows what i'm talking about.
i really believe that when a single guy and a single girl starts to consider one another as "friends" ... it's actulally sexual...get my drift anyone?
Sunapollo, Aziumthx, and sg2kca you guys got the wrong idea.
babychai knows what i'm talking about.
i really believe that when a single guy and a single girl starts to consider one another as "friends" ... it's actulally sexual...get my drift anyone?
Ice I was talking to you.
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Bullshit.
There are no such thing is male & female FRIENDship. One side always wants the other side. Trust me. It's history proven.
Bullshit.
There are no such thing is male & female FRIENDship. One side always wants the other side. Trust me. It's history proven.
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Originally posted by bumdup
Sunapollo, Aziumthx, and sg2kca you guys got the wrong idea.
babychai knows what i'm talking about.
i really believe that when a single guy and a single girl starts to consider one another as "friends" ... it's actulally sexual...get my drift anyone?
Sunapollo, Aziumthx, and sg2kca you guys got the wrong idea.
babychai knows what i'm talking about.
i really believe that when a single guy and a single girl starts to consider one another as "friends" ... it's actulally sexual...get my drift anyone?
but I don't want to think sex ... because babychai has proved to me that single guy and single girl can be good friends !!
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Bullshit.
There are no such thing is male & female FRIENDship. One side always wants the other side. Trust me. It's history proven.
Bullshit.
There are no such thing is male & female FRIENDship. One side always wants the other side. Trust me. It's history proven.
not alot of people will admit to this... feels good to hear alot of you agree with me!
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Rep Power: 0 i have always thought guys and girls can be friends. i have many and so do my friends....
but i was in denial...last work term, the guys at work convinced me that guys and girls couldn't be friends...
(they were arguing with me using me and my bf as an example....i was only friends with my bf at that time and i was convinced that we were only friends cuz he said he didn't like me on many occasions directly and indirectly....but in the end, i was wrong and they were right....)
that and on many cases, i observe either a guy getting to know a girl as a friend only because he is attracted to her, or the other way around, a girl getting to know a guy because she is attracted to him...
but in other cases, guys and girls can just be friends.
but i was in denial...last work term, the guys at work convinced me that guys and girls couldn't be friends...
(they were arguing with me using me and my bf as an example....i was only friends with my bf at that time and i was convinced that we were only friends cuz he said he didn't like me on many occasions directly and indirectly....but in the end, i was wrong and they were right....)
that and on many cases, i observe either a guy getting to know a girl as a friend only because he is attracted to her, or the other way around, a girl getting to know a guy because she is attracted to him...
but in other cases, guys and girls can just be friends.
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Rep Power: 0 Harry: Would you like to have dinner? ...Just friends.
Sally: I thought you didn't believe men and women could be friends.
Harry: When did I say that?
Sally: On the ride to New York.
Harry: No, no, no, I never said that. ...Yes, that's right, they can't be friends. Unless both of them are involved with other people, then they can. ...This is an amendment to the earlier rule. If the two people are in relationships, the pressure of possible involvement is lifted. ...That doesn't work either, because what happens then is, the person you're involved with can't understand why you need to be friends with the person you're just friends with. Like it means something is missing from the relationship and why do you have to go outside to get it? And when you say "No, no, no it's not true, nothing is missing from the relationship," the person you're involved with then accuses you of being secretly attracted to the person you're just friends with, which you probably are. I mean, come on, who the hell are we kidding, let's face it. Which brings us back to the earlier rule before the amendment, which is men and women can't be friends.
Sally: I thought you didn't believe men and women could be friends.
Harry: When did I say that?
Sally: On the ride to New York.
Harry: No, no, no, I never said that. ...Yes, that's right, they can't be friends. Unless both of them are involved with other people, then they can. ...This is an amendment to the earlier rule. If the two people are in relationships, the pressure of possible involvement is lifted. ...That doesn't work either, because what happens then is, the person you're involved with can't understand why you need to be friends with the person you're just friends with. Like it means something is missing from the relationship and why do you have to go outside to get it? And when you say "No, no, no it's not true, nothing is missing from the relationship," the person you're involved with then accuses you of being secretly attracted to the person you're just friends with, which you probably are. I mean, come on, who the hell are we kidding, let's face it. Which brings us back to the earlier rule before the amendment, which is men and women can't be friends.
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well the gurl u see in p mall its pink... and i dun go to p mall// i usually will in midland... but late at the noon....
well the gurl u see in p mall its pink... and i dun go to p mall// i usually will in midland... but late at the noon....
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i have friends that are guys and its non-sexual..maybe its because they became my friends because of other friends... friends of friend's becoming ur own friends..............
but in the case of becoming a friend with a guy on my own..............yea ...i really don't talk to people who i don't find attractive...........*shrugs*..........
i have friends that are guys and its non-sexual..maybe its because they became my friends because of other friends... friends of friend's becoming ur own friends..............
but in the case of becoming a friend with a guy on my own..............yea ...i really don't talk to people who i don't find attractive...........*shrugs*..........
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and of cos its really depend... cos i believe we all in here DO have gurl friends...or Boy friends.... which we DO just treat them as FRIEND~!
and of cos its really depend... cos i believe we all in here DO have gurl friends...or Boy friends.... which we DO just treat them as FRIEND~!
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well, then there's the issue of one's definition of the word "friend"...to what limit do you consider a person your friend? right?
well, then there's the issue of one's definition of the word "friend"...to what limit do you consider a person your friend? right?
well i believe the definition of a friend... its hang around... play around... share happy stuff so does sad stuff... and of cos dun pass the limit...
if once pass the limit.. than its BS~ its no longer are friend... it just either way do like each other but non admit~
im sorrie guys but it really depends actually....
ive been friends with this one girl for very long time. met her at a summer camp when i was in 9th grade and we have been very good friends from then till now. i think that is the only really successful friendship that i have to date that still actually works with a female
i think if u dont let ur hormones get out of control friendship between a girl and guy will always work.. the moment u start letting those things fly its pretty much jumping on a train...
ive been friends with this one girl for very long time. met her at a summer camp when i was in 9th grade and we have been very good friends from then till now. i think that is the only really successful friendship that i have to date that still actually works with a female
i think if u dont let ur hormones get out of control friendship between a girl and guy will always work.. the moment u start letting those things fly its pretty much jumping on a train...
