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[hr]Originally posted by: SPIDEY
R1:..nono..all comments are appreicated....well yeah I understand what you are saying..taht's exactly what i was thinking about last night after she got upset....I got so mad I was like....throwing things.....but then like..like....she can;t help it if she feels unconfident......like...I don;t know....just thinking back....and again...reminding myself how great she is....just made me wnat to like...give her time to change..like I know she can;t help it...but yeah..I undersatnd too mcuh is bad.....and it is already pretty bad for us...she gets upset very often...but yeah.....I just got to wait and see....but yeah I understand though man..[hr]

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[hr]Originally posted by: Sunapollo
babychai !! you are taken ??
what a lucky bf you have !!

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[hr]Originally posted by: babychai
Hahaha, there's no definite answer cuz it'd take some time for the girl to adjust to what you've said and your way of thinking...

Then I guess avoid letting them see each other...Seriously, I think the other girl was just trying to make the situation a bit better by leaving... I know I would leave if I know that some other guy's gf is daggering me with her eyes...(not that they have any reason to anyway...)

And usually the other parties know what is appropriate and what isn't.... I know that my guy friends act differently around me when I'm taken... They have respect for the guy...
And for the most part, girls will know when to back off also...especially if they know that the guy has a jealous girlfriend...
So see if you can change the environment a bit to accomodate ur gf...like hang out elsewhere...or maybe ask the girl to stay in her room when ur gf is over...[hr]

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[hr]Originally posted by: R1Style
I understand that you love her, I was in sort of the same situation you were in. Me and my ex talked about our future, I told her how much I loved her, she was hot, I loved her family, her family loved me, etc... but enough was enough. I told her how I felt and now I know it wasn't meant to be (but I'm not saying you guys aren't meant to be). I put up with almost the same s**t you're going through then one day I just thought to myself, what the f**k is going on? I decided I couldn't put up with it anymore and that this would probably go on for a very long time. The thought of that was enough to break it off. I realize now how crazy she was and even my friends told me that they couldn't believe I put up with that s**t for such a long time.
I'm not telling you to break it off with her but tuck in your ***** and lift up your skirt and tell her how you feel and how it is (No flame intended). [IMG]i/expressions/beer_yum.gif[/IMG][hr]

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[hr]Originally posted by: PiNk
i SO agree with you R1....that's why i broke up with my bf....too much fights and problems going on.....i'd rather start to LIE to him about where i'm going (not cheating on hime though, just oging out with friends) than have another fight with him trying to explain to him who i'm going out with, and what i'm doing, and where i'm going!![IMG]i/expressions/face-icon-small-frown.gif[/IMG][hr]

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[hr]Originally posted by: ice2000
OMG! it WAS the same situation for me.... heheh...and im like ur gf...and this is my major promblem too in my relationship[IMG]i/expressions/face-icon-small-frown.gif[/IMG]
i get jealous very easy... when my bf met a new gal.... which i dunno that gal.. than i will be upset....and i have the same promblem as ur gal..i have so low self confidence..always scare my bf will dumb me.... if he met another gal....etc etc...... blablabla//... but now i got A bit better...cos whenever.... if he met a new gal or his group of guys are talking HOTTIE... he will hold my hand or put his arm around my shoulder,which make me feel comfortable.. cos it show that he care about me, and he can sense i dun feel comfortable [IMG]i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif[/IMG]
and for ur case... a girl moved to ur house... if i were her i would like [IMG]i/expressions/face-icon-small-mad.gif[/IMG] screaming my head off!
and how long will she stay sin?/
if i were u i would offer ur gal friend to stay in to ur house to live for a while too... until that girl are gone..cos i think she can feel more sercue...[hr]

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[hr]Originally posted by: SPIDEY

Like she always think she has a lot of pimples..(which she doesn't).and that she is too skinny , like not a good body (whihc she doens't..czo I think she is perfect...IMO anyway).......I don't know what to do...I tell her so many times.....but doens;'t help[hr]

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[hr]Originally posted by: SPIDEY
Well ..no haha..I don't think her parents will allow it....

Anyways..yeah..I would spend more time with her....but I just want her to be more confident...like I won't force her..but I just hope she can do it.....coz I mean....if she always have low self-esteem..then that means everytime I meet someone new(gal)..then she is going to get upset....like ..I have no female friends....and I am not planning to get any..but Imean..I think female accquintences are fine....and later, in my future work place, there is probably going to be female co-worker....and....I might have to work with them and stuff....like...it is just something we have to face .......I wish the world is only just ME and HER...but ...that's not going to happen until we get old and until our retirement or osmething....so yeah..

well..since you said you have low self-confidence....like....in what ways...do you think I can help her feel that she is prettier....and that she is better than others. Like she always think she has a lot of pimples..(which she doesn't).and that she is too skinny , like not a good body (whihc she doens't..czo I think she is perfect...IMO anyway).......I don't know what to do...I tell her so many times.....but doens;'t help[hr]

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[hr]3) working out / eating well for a healthier lifestyle...[hr]

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[hr]Originally posted by: ice2000
well i dun think u always need to keep telling her u r pretty and etc .... cos if u said it lot.. than she will get bore..and she would think u r
"Fu hin" ... the only way to get her better... its to comfort her
...how to comfort her.. its not only sweet talk.. its action..always be there with her!!!![hr]

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[hr]Originally posted by: ice2000

well i dun think u always need to keep telling her u r pretty and etc .... cos if u said it lot.. than she will get bore..and she would think u r
"Fu hin" ... the only way to get her better... its to comfort her
...how to comfort her.. its not only sweet talk.. its action..always be there with her!!!![hr]

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[hr]Originally posted by: babychai
I think that ice is right too.. If you keep on telling her every moment then it's not special anymore and maybe it's not as sincere as you want it to be...[hr]