OT: Girl problem (cont'd) *LONG*
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OT: Girl problem (cont'd) *LONG*
I seriously think that October and February are the months for problems. At least for me, I've had my last 4 breakups in October or February...
Anyways, from my previous post about getting into a fight when I was about to go to the meet... First of all, it was quite uncalled for. My gf actually knew about the meet and that I was supposed to go to soccer for 4PM every Sunday. Just because I wanted to wash up the car before the meet (still suspicious as to whether my car lowered can go through a touchless wash), she thought I was spending too much time and taking away *her time* even though because of her company I had to wake up at 8AM on the SUNDAY to drive her down to the breast cancer run downtown.
Anyhow, just these two weeks, I've been starting to rethink my situation. I've suddenly (non-intentionally) got in contact again with a lot of my girls and ex's, one of which I am still quite fond of. Last week had a long ICQ session with my dream girl (who happens to be my very good friend for a couple of years), and also just past week I've gone out with my best friend (girl) a couple of times and enjoyed it very very much. It's starting to occur to me that I don't necessarily need a gf, and it's starting to feel like I can get a much better girl than one who nags at me all the time and is stubborn...
So my dilemma is whether I should even give myself another go at some dates... I've done this before, with my last last ex, was to still head out for some "secret" dates with girls... Ok, fine, I admit it, it was cheating, but on the dates we do no more than holding hands and light hugging, except for a one time *accident*...
Last night my dream girl called again, though she missed me coz I was pissed drunk and sleeping, I called her briefly today and find her bf isn't treating her well. Like I said above, had a long ICQ session with her last week after trying hard to keep myself away from her for almost a year... The session was full of sweet talk (of which she and I constantly did throughout our years at UofT) and warm feelings... I must admit that I've been in love with her since the beginning. All along I just thought that if her bf was treating her well and that she was happy, that's all that counted. Basically, it was such that I would do anything for her. There I was, playing around and dating a couple of girls and treating my ex-gf at the time like sh*t, and a word from *her* and I stopped everything and broke up with that ex just because *she* didn't think it was nice and asked me to try and find another gf who's better than that ex... (phew, confusing, but dun wanna put names on here).
So now I am at the turning point. I'd either let this go again, and keep myself away from her again, or let myself go down that path and possibly have to juggle through two girls until I can decide who I will be better off with......
I know some of you will say that I should keep with my current gf because that's the "right" thing to do, or drop her and go on without double-taking... Well, it's hard, and I have different feelings either way........ Anyway, I've vented, comments welcome. [IMG]i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif[/IMG]
Anyways, from my previous post about getting into a fight when I was about to go to the meet... First of all, it was quite uncalled for. My gf actually knew about the meet and that I was supposed to go to soccer for 4PM every Sunday. Just because I wanted to wash up the car before the meet (still suspicious as to whether my car lowered can go through a touchless wash), she thought I was spending too much time and taking away *her time* even though because of her company I had to wake up at 8AM on the SUNDAY to drive her down to the breast cancer run downtown.
Anyhow, just these two weeks, I've been starting to rethink my situation. I've suddenly (non-intentionally) got in contact again with a lot of my girls and ex's, one of which I am still quite fond of. Last week had a long ICQ session with my dream girl (who happens to be my very good friend for a couple of years), and also just past week I've gone out with my best friend (girl) a couple of times and enjoyed it very very much. It's starting to occur to me that I don't necessarily need a gf, and it's starting to feel like I can get a much better girl than one who nags at me all the time and is stubborn...
So my dilemma is whether I should even give myself another go at some dates... I've done this before, with my last last ex, was to still head out for some "secret" dates with girls... Ok, fine, I admit it, it was cheating, but on the dates we do no more than holding hands and light hugging, except for a one time *accident*...
Last night my dream girl called again, though she missed me coz I was pissed drunk and sleeping, I called her briefly today and find her bf isn't treating her well. Like I said above, had a long ICQ session with her last week after trying hard to keep myself away from her for almost a year... The session was full of sweet talk (of which she and I constantly did throughout our years at UofT) and warm feelings... I must admit that I've been in love with her since the beginning. All along I just thought that if her bf was treating her well and that she was happy, that's all that counted. Basically, it was such that I would do anything for her. There I was, playing around and dating a couple of girls and treating my ex-gf at the time like sh*t, and a word from *her* and I stopped everything and broke up with that ex just because *she* didn't think it was nice and asked me to try and find another gf who's better than that ex... (phew, confusing, but dun wanna put names on here).
So now I am at the turning point. I'd either let this go again, and keep myself away from her again, or let myself go down that path and possibly have to juggle through two girls until I can decide who I will be better off with......
I know some of you will say that I should keep with my current gf because that's the "right" thing to do, or drop her and go on without double-taking... Well, it's hard, and I have different feelings either way........ Anyway, I've vented, comments welcome. [IMG]i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif[/IMG]
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Rep Power: 0 cant help u with relationship problems, and i hope your girl wont find out that u post on here cuz once she see this you are doomed, just like my friend, but do not, i repeat DO NOT go to those touch less car wash, i stratched a few times before, and i believe lowered to the same height as your car
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Rep Power: 0 Good, thx for letting me know, I was quite hessitant (about the wash).
BTW, where can I take my car to wash around Scarborough/Markham if I can't find time to wash by hand?
BTW, where can I take my car to wash around Scarborough/Markham if I can't find time to wash by hand?
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Rep Power: 0 Man, i guess ur the only one that can make the final decision but if i were u, i'd talk to my gf and tell her my priorities and hope she understands. If she doesn't, it's better to end it now, cause it will only get worse.
As to ur dreamgirl, i wouldn't even think about it until she breaks up with her bf. Girls usually say it doesn't go well with their bf but untill they break up, i wouldn't go for them. They may need attention or someone that treats them well and they know they can get it from u. But the guy she still "love" is her bf.
As for 2 girls......unless u don't feel anything for either of them , it's cool, but once u have feelings for either or both of them, it's going to be a real headache.
I may be completely wrong but that's what i think. You could always go solo! U'll have all the time for urself, no more worries!
As to ur dreamgirl, i wouldn't even think about it until she breaks up with her bf. Girls usually say it doesn't go well with their bf but untill they break up, i wouldn't go for them. They may need attention or someone that treats them well and they know they can get it from u. But the guy she still "love" is her bf.
As for 2 girls......unless u don't feel anything for either of them , it's cool, but once u have feelings for either or both of them, it's going to be a real headache.
I may be completely wrong but that's what i think. You could always go solo! U'll have all the time for urself, no more worries!
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Rep Power: 0 Wow Msoft, your mind must be racing!!
If there is another girl other than your girlfriend that you would say is your "dreamgirl" than that is your answer and your girlfriend isnt the right one for you. If this other girl is within reach you definitely need to talk with her and express what you feel and think. She might feel the same way too, and you at least need to know where you stand. Always go for what you believe in and dream for.
Those are just my 2 cents.
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If there is another girl other than your girlfriend that you would say is your "dreamgirl" than that is your answer and your girlfriend isnt the right one for you. If this other girl is within reach you definitely need to talk with her and express what you feel and think. She might feel the same way too, and you at least need to know where you stand. Always go for what you believe in and dream for.
Those are just my 2 cents.
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Rep Power: 0 i say.. have a long talk with ur current girl... tell her about how ur so much into cars and that if she does love u... she wouldnt take that u love to do away.... itz juss pure selfishness... but.,... if she is ok with u doin ur own thing but still have time with her.. then always remember to balance things out.... a lot of people's relationship these days r goin down the drain due to the fact of one bein a car lover.. and one isnt into it as much.... u juss gotta know what ur priority is... UNDERSTANDING and COMPROMISE is a perfect solution
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Rep Power: 0 dyum...... msoft.... that brings a tear to my eye... hahah.. well... ask ur self this... why are u moving from one gurl to another.. i mean... u just broke up with ur girl... then suddenly ur gonna move on to the next... give it time... u need to think of more things other than getting a gurl right away... i must admit it does get "BORRING" without one... but if u just got out of a relationship give ur self time to think things over.... who knows... ur ex might get back with u... good luck
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[hr]Originally posted by: relaxx
Man, i guess ur the only one that can make the final decision but if i were u, i'd talk to my gf and tell her my priorities and hope she understands. If she doesn't, it's better to end it now, cause it will only get worse.
As to ur dreamgirl, i wouldn't even think about it until she breaks up with her bf. Girls usually say it doesn't go well with their bf but untill they break up, i wouldn't go for them. They may need attention or someone that treats them well and they know they can get it from u. But the guy she still "love" is her bf.
As for 2 girls......unless u don't feel anything for either of them , it's cool, but once u have feelings for either or both of them, it's going to be a real headache.
I may be completely wrong but that's what i think. You could always go solo! U'll have all the time for urself, no more worries![hr]
[hr]Originally posted by: relaxx
Man, i guess ur the only one that can make the final decision but if i were u, i'd talk to my gf and tell her my priorities and hope she understands. If she doesn't, it's better to end it now, cause it will only get worse.
As to ur dreamgirl, i wouldn't even think about it until she breaks up with her bf. Girls usually say it doesn't go well with their bf but untill they break up, i wouldn't go for them. They may need attention or someone that treats them well and they know they can get it from u. But the guy she still "love" is her bf.
As for 2 girls......unless u don't feel anything for either of them , it's cool, but once u have feelings for either or both of them, it's going to be a real headache.
I may be completely wrong but that's what i think. You could always go solo! U'll have all the time for urself, no more worries![hr]
As for my 2 cents, just hand wash the car... you're better off!
I never had problems like this before in my 7 year relationship with my girl. Of course during the course of your relationship you will bump into many, many women that will confuse the heck out of you and make you think twice about your present relationship. And these things ALWAYS happen while in bad terms with your girl so the temptation is quite high. My advise is, if you know what and who you want to be with, don't let "them" ruin something good. Talk to your girl man, a good way to keep a good relationship is through good communication.
once again... As for my 2 cents, just hand wash the car... you're better off!
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[hr]Originally posted by: macrossranma
cant help u with relationship problems, and i hope your girl wont find out that u post on here cuz once she see this you are doomed[hr]
[hr]Originally posted by: macrossranma
cant help u with relationship problems, and i hope your girl wont find out that u post on here cuz once she see this you are doomed[hr]
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Rep Power: 0 [IMG]i/expressions/face-icon-small-disgusted.gif[/IMG]... well my point a view its... u must have to oranganize ur time~ i know u love ur car so much...but of cos u have to put some time on ur gal too.. i mean... i think ur gf feels so sad too cause all u are showing her is u car about ur cars only...everythings its car... spent some times to talk with her... <HINT**> when u talk with her.. dun mention car again... talk somethings she loves to hear... [IMG]i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif[/IMG] but as u say..u want to go for ur dream gal.. so at that point.. it can show that u are not really love ur current gf.. sigh[IMG]i/expressions/face-icon-small-frown.gif[/IMG]
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