Oh baby, you know how bad this one hurts me, I'M SORRY! How can I get your mind off things???

As already mentioned, civil suit against her to insure your insurance rates do not go up and the person who is responsible actually pays for it! I would also she if the boyfriends's insurance will pay for it? For, it was his car and passenger that did the damage. Or, give that estimate to him/her and give them x amount of time to cough up the estimate money and if they don't, well, you will see them in court on a civil matter if his insurance will not pay for it.