damn, that guy sure is rude, i usually don't bother with tickets, because the cops got me fair and square. but i guess you got a reason...
you should get those friends of yours to pay for the ticket. a few friends and i cause another friend a ticket on the way back from the movies (got him to race a tib with his gran am) he got a 160 dollar ticket for rapid lane change and speeding (72 in a 55). the few of us paid for his ticket for him, now that's close friends
and usually, before we take off in the cavalry, we get our destination right, and tend to have the lead guy to be the most care of the group (will stop on yellow, to wait for the rest of the cars, etc...) learned that from hanging out with the 7thgen crew