I learned to drive in an automatic Camry; failed my driver's test twice. Took my test in my dad's manual Jeep after a 5 minute parking lot crash-course in driving a manual and passed with no point demerits.
Soo... Manual 100%. My '01 is a manual, and I refined my driving skills in it, taught 2 friends how to drive a stick in it, and have yet to replace the clutch. Busted my right hand and wrist in collegiate cheerleading and never once wished it was an automatic--it just made driving more fun!
There's just something about feeling the hum of the engine and being able to hear the transmission responding to your shifting that makes you feel powerful and in charge. To me, it feels safe, and it's really helped me form what I consider to be a
relationship with my car. I know when something's wrong because I can sense it-- feel, smell, hear, or see the problem right away, because I know how she is SUPPOSED to respond to me.
I just don't get that with an automatic because the lil shits do whatever they want and shift at the wrong intervals half the time.
I'm looking into a 2010 Insight right now and am thinking I'll keep my '01 anyway.
My dad taught all of us to drive a stick, because "You never know what kind of situation you'll be in when the only vehicle available has a manual transmission. MY girls are not going to be helpless, so sit your ass down, shut your mouth, and DRIVE!"
Funny thing is, the next year in college I WAS in a situation where the only vehicle available was a stick, and I was the only sober one who knew how to drive it.
My bf has an '04 automatic Civic and he's always trying to get me to let him take my car because I get better mileage. I know better; it's because MY car is more FUN. (Neighbors think we're disgustingly cute with our matching white Honda's)