You shouldn't just tell someone you love them unless you really mean it, it's funny how words can mean so much. Do what you want, you have to live with yourself, happy or not
yo thanks silverdevil for sticking up for me... i guess none of you really understand my situation, dont u think my girl is cheatin on me too considering she is 200 miles away and is a very very HOTTT lil momma. there's no doubt in my she is cheating on me, and i havent even cheated on her, i wuz just askin if i could you guys dont have to act like you want to kill me for it... jeez. i'm not gonna cheat on my girl and besides her best friend hit on me first, and im gonna tell her wut happened and she'll prob be mad and if she dumps me, i'll be sad but WTF theres plenty more fish in the sea.
PS- thanks to every1, this is the first time i have had over more than 20 replies to a thread, keep em comin
oh yeah and to all those who think i'm a bad horrible person, im not. if any of you have ever read any of my other posts about my girl troubles you will see this is the first time i ever even thought of something so cruel. im the kinda guy who does everything right, dont do drugs, gets all A's, dresses nice, nice car [IMG]i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif[/IMG], have a job (more than i can say for most people my age), and i have never cheated on a girl in my life, prob becuz i have never really had a steady girl, just lil things here and there. just dont think i'm a bad person i treat girls like queens, i wuz just askin cuz i wanted to know if anyone else would do it. sorry if i made any1 mad.
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[hr]Originally posted by: MistaFreeze
i know i dont really love her, i like her alot, but u know sometimes thats tha kinda game u have to spit to get in the panties. ya know what i mean.[hr]
Dude thats wrong man...People like you don't deserve women.. If you dont love your girl then why stay together. If you wanna cheat break up with your girl first. You definitly have no morals and if you actually wanna be a man then you should have the balls to respect your girl. You sound like you would just walk all over her. In the long run you'll just be a lonely guy. Fo sho dirty. Before you flame on me i just wanna tell you that i have a great relationship wit mah girl. I go for quality not quantity. Messin around will only last you maybe a few nights, but it will never satisfy you for the rest of your life
uuhhh... is it just me or have u guys completely missed all the other posts except the first two. read every thing i have said, then u can talk $hit to me.
silverdevil, you want to know why we're not going easy on MistaFreeze? Because he's not thinking. I guess I'm old school, but I was brought up to be trusting and truthful to my girlfriend, and the idea of cheating never entered my head, no matter what the distance was. And believe me, I've had a girlfriend 1000 miles away, and I was still true to her.
You want to know why it gets me mad? Because his kind of attitude gives the REAL gentlemen bad names. You want to know why men are called pigs all the time by girls? There's your answer. I freaking HATE cheaters. 16 or 20 or 50, it's still wrong, will always be wrong no matter what age it is. You're not taking the other person's feelings into account. ESPECIALLY when you say stuff like "i know i dont really love her...but u know sometimes thats tha kinda game u have to spit to get in the panties. ya know what i mean." I hope that was a joke!
If you seriously considered cheating like this, then break up with her. Stop wasting her time and playing with her emotions.
As the promotors for nike would say, JUST DO IT ....... I'm not sure why you even posted this question as you knew people would bash you for thinking about it ..... the fact is everyone thinks about and , but few do it ....I never have, and never will but I have been the other person once......and I have to admit it felt awesome.....and i'm sure I'll be called an a$$ and other things but its obvious your current relationship is pretty much over so your 16 , your young...go for it ....before your too old and your in a serious relationship ...use protection though, or else you'll have more kids than Evnader Holyfield
Dude, you're wrong. I can't condone being a playa, as I'm a reformed playa myself, but that is most DEFINTELY NOT the type of game you spit to get into the panties. I'm gonna be more real with you than ANYONE: let me school you to some pimpin', young boi; from a Playa's perspective, you are ROYALLY fuggin' up. You don't tell a girl you LOVE her to get into the panties, you tip-toe around the words without SAYING them. That way, once you've got the drawlz, and she says,"you said you LOVED me", you can say, "Hell Naw, I ain't never say dat sh%t!" It's cold, now that I think about it, but at least you didn't BLATANTLY lie. Being a Playa doesn't necessarily mean you have to be a liar. It means you have to be a MANIPULATOR. If you're not skilled at manipulation, GET OUT THE GAME. PERIOD. (Disclaimer: This is not in any way an endorsement of being a player or the player lifestyle; it is simply a brief synopsis of how to engage in it PROPERLY. The author will not be held responsible for broken hearts due to proper pimping, or facial slaps due to poor pimping.)
Now, from a Gentlemen's perspective: It is IMPERATIVE that you GROW THE FUG UP AND STOP PLAYING. If you want to get some drawlz and have fun while you're young, that's your choice. There are few men that haven't done the same (yours truly included). But had I learned early enough the consequences of my actions (and the benefits of acting differently), I would have known that HONESTY is the way to go. If you tell a woman from jump that all you want is the drawlz, she may not give them to you, but she'll respect you for it. SPARE A WOMAN A POTENTIAL BROKEN HEART and help redeem us few good men out there. Be REAL. You never know, she might be wanting the same thing. Now wouldn't that be nice?
Vizyun, you have some good points, but most of them don't apply to his kid.....he's a horny kid, he's not in love, if anything he's in lust.....the last thing he is, is a player..... he wants to shag his girlfirneds friend, (whis is wrong, I admit) but I don't think that makes him a player, maybe an ass but not a player ..... if he wants to do it who are we to lecture him, I realize he asked for an opinon but he'll learn the consequences once he does it ......
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[hr]Originally posted by: MistaFreeze
yo thanks silverdevil for sticking up for me... i guess none of you really understand my situation ... [hr]
No one here needs to understand your situation. You say that you're 16 and it would be different if you were 25 - no, it wouldn't. If you consider cheating now then you'd consider cheating at 25 unless you do something to change. If you think that your girlfriend is cheating on you then fvcking break up with her and move on with your life. And I don't care how responisble you are, what your grades are, how you are compared to everyone else your age - guess what? It doesn't matter. A cheater is still a fvcking cheater. And if you want to have some fun, then what the fvck are you doing with a girlfriend? And don't tell her you love her b/c you want to get some ass. There are plenty of girls that will hook up w/ you without being your girlfriend. Grab you balls and be a man about it.
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[hr]Originally posted by: MistaFreeze
yo thanks silverdevil for sticking up for me... i guess none of you really understand my situation ... [hr]
No one here needs to understand your situation. You say that you're 16 and it would be different if you were 25 - no, it wouldn't. If you consider cheating now then you'd consider cheating at 25 unless you do something to change. If you think that your girlfriend is cheating on you then fvcking break up with her and move on with your life. And I don't care how responisble you are, what your grades are, how you are compared to everyone else your age - guess what? It doesn't matter. A cheater is still a fvcking cheater. And if you want to have some fun, then what the fvck are you doing with a girlfriend? And don't tell her you love her b/c you want to get some ass. There are plenty of girls that will hook up w/ you without being your girlfriend. Grab you balls and be a man about it.[hr]
well said.....if a guy is just straight up with a girl, its good, cuz then she knows where she stands, and if she gets "emotionally involved" she has only herself to blame, cuz she knew how it was from the beginning.....its just like that ol' skool song from Naughty by Nature, "OPP." YOu need to learn it if all you want is some booty....plenty of girls will go for the "no strings attached" deal....ya just gotta have cahones enough to be real about it....
Update, last night i told my best friends girl i couldnt talk to her anymore because i knew it would hurt my girl to find out. She was mad for realz. Then i grabbed my balls and told my girl that me and your friend were just talking and having stupid fun OVER THE INTERNET (which i dont think none of you knew). She was mad as heck and i talked to her for about 3 hours after that trying to explain or whatever becuz i had to tell her now before it was later in our relationship and hurt her more than it already did. She told me she still loves me and i know she still wants to be with me, but she says she doesnt know. So heres basically a summary dropped the best friend, told my girlfriend, girlfriend mad at me and her best friend, best friend still spitting game at me?, i say im sorry to both of them, girlfriend still loves me - just time before she forgives me. So guys i did like you said and told her, i hope you all are happy now, i know one thing i know never to post anything about girl problems on this website, or prepared to get flamed.
PS- i was kidding about the getting in her panties part, i can do that without telling her i love her.
PSS- i aint a horny little kid, if i was i wouldnt take the time talking to a girl who lives 2 hours away from me, i would just be makin booty calls to the hOez around here
PSSS- i finally got more than 2 pages of thread!
