ok .. since ur so determined and im doing my build ill give u a full response
Bottom end:
Rods: Crower ~$700 / k1 ~$500 bucks .. difference is just foreign vs domestic steel... both quality but jus a price difference
Pistons: Weisco .. if u bored it, u go oversized 75.5mm
Head:
Cam: Crower Stage 2 turbo Cam / or stage 3 if you want to make 450whp, but its a little rough on idle since its so aggressive. ~$400
Valve Train: Crower springs and retainers ~400
Head makes power, so i'd say do the port work while you can.
YOU MUST CHANGE YOUR CRAPPY PLASTIC INTAKE MANIFOLD. JDM fabtech or a d16y8 conversion will solve ur problem, it all depends on ur budget ... 1000 or 300 bucks lol
Fuel, u have to get walbro if u don't already, and go return !
ECU: 100000000% MUST GO WITH STANDALONE, EITHER KPRO with the hondata adjusted cam gear ~$1300 .. or AEM EMS ~1600 ... It all depends on your tuner, and what he's best with. I went with kpro because its more street friendly
Clutch: You have to go with a puck disk for that kind of power, forget any street disk .. Clutchmaster stage 4, Action clutch 6 puck
Injectors: RC 1000cc
Gauges: MUST GET AFR WIDEBAND if u don't have one, MUST MUST MUST MUST AEM is a good one
Exhaust: 3" straight through, either magnaflow 3" straight through muffler or vibrant 3" straight through muffler. Vibrant also makes 3" straight through resonators.
That should cover everything u need with the right turbo and tubular manifold .. 450whp d17 is a must! gt30 is a good one

if u need anything else jus ask but that is one complete shopping list