help with this girl

Pn0ybOiLiKehOy · 01-01-2006

ive been with this girl for 2 months now. at first everything was fine and dandy but now when i call her, she doesnt answer and turns off her phone, keep in mind this has just started a couple days ago. when i DO get to talk to her she says ill call you back and ends up not calling me back so then i call her back after a while and no answer. so i don tknow what to do, i try to call her because i want to talk about this problem but she wont even pick up the phone. i dont believe i have dont anything wrong. help me please.

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RHCP0801 · 01-01-2006

that is the reason why i hate girls, no im not gay, i just hate them cause there so damn weird, maybe she has her period or something

ZapThyCat · 01-01-2006

Best read the signs bro.

She doesn't want a relationship, time to move on. If you keep chasing after her it just makes you look desperate.

Other fish in the sea, go after one of them that's a little more communicative

RelycVic · 01-01-2006

It seems that she's trying to avoid you, maybe she did something wrong that you don't know about, the best way to find out is not trying to call her, but instead talk to her in person, she can't avoid you then.

Fiji_Blue_EM2 · 01-01-2006

Sounds like she has decided the realtionship is over but doesn't have the nerve to let you know.

I would stop calling her and move on.

What could she possibly say that you want to hear at this point?

Her silence speaks volumes.

RelycVic · 01-02-2006

Zap and Fiji are right, I still believe talking to her wouldn't hurt, (trust me, you wont like bumping into her in the future knowing you didn't put closure to what she has apperantely started) just take wait a while if you do decide to talk to her, like Zap said, it might make you look desperate, just show that you're over her and not interested in anything to do with her (even if you're not). You will find someone else.

SilverCivSedan · 01-02-2006

Sounds like she's avoiding you. She's prolly gonna dump you. Hate to be that blunt about it, but that's what usually happens right before someone really worthless is getting ready to kick your ass to the curb.

If you see her in person then ask what her deal is. And be specific. If things go well she'll be honest enough to tell you that it's over. If she's a lying little sack of . . .then she'll be shady and act like everything is fine or try to play mind games.

For some reason I don't think that she's on PMS right now. I am a girl. . .and I hate girls.

05_ CivicJDM · 01-02-2006

She's obviously too immature to even talk/end it with you... dump the beeyotch!!

big20ugly · 01-02-2006

it's over. the more you call the more she'll not want to talk to you. 2 months is nothing in a relationship and it seems like you got attached way too fast.

go on dust your shoulders off. go have a beer and find yourself a new girl. its not the end of the world.

gearbox · 01-02-2006

shes cheating

pon55 · 01-02-2006

U been dumped! Get over it!

SilverCivSedan · 01-02-2006

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Originally Posted by gearbox

shes cheating

Yeah, or she's seriously thinking about it.

You can do better than her.

armieo · 01-02-2006

She probably had her mouth full every time you called.

SilverCivSedan · 01-02-2006

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Originally Posted by armieo

She probably had her mouth full every time you called.

I know you prolly still have a lot of feelings for her but she obviously doesn't care enough about you to give you any kind of closure. You don't have to hate her. . .I'll hate her for you.

Fiji_Blue_EM2 · 01-02-2006

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Originally Posted by armieo

She probably had her mouth full every time you called.

full of?

*plays stupid

*

mrDFWmechanic · 01-02-2006

move on bro dont deal with crap like that

Honda2k4 · 01-02-2006

call her and leave her a message, tell her its important to call you back right away... don't answer if she calls and don't call her back if she leaves a message

if she doesnt call you anymore its time to find a new girl

SilverCivSedan · 01-03-2006

I'm sorry that bitch did you wrong. Try not to laugh in her face when she sees you with a better looking (and better all-around) woman, and she gets jealous as hell. Cause more than likely it will happen.

Eeeeeeh · 01-03-2006

Cut your losses and just move on. If she'll come back, they always do so just when you start to forget about them.

04hemiboy · 01-03-2006

There's that book."She or He is not into you" ..

She probably found a bigger p3cker

That's why when you get them drive them like a pornstar.

Fiji_Blue_EM2 · 01-04-2006

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Originally Posted by 04hemiboy

There's that book."She or He is not into you" ..

She probably found a bigger p3cker

That's why when you get them drive them like a pornstar.

he's just not that into you by greg behrendt

04hemiboy · 01-04-2006

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Originally Posted by Fiji_Blue_EM2

he's just not that into you by greg behrendt

Well that book won't do him no good then..Unless he's a HOMO

So my advice then is.. Bang her right the first time. They won't leave after a GOOD bangin.None of this "make love crap" You do that then they go look for good bangin.Save the "make love sh1t"for when you're 60

Fiji_Blue_EM2 · 01-04-2006

let's go over this once more, shall we?

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Originally Posted by Pn0ybOiLiKehOy

ive been with this girl for 2 months now. at first everything was fine and dandy but now when i call her, she doesnt answer and turns off her phone, keep in mind this has just started a couple days ago. when i DO get to talk to her she says ill call you back and ends up not calling me back so then i call her back after a while and no answer. so i don tknow what to do, i try to call her because i want to talk about this problem but she wont even pick up the phone. i dont believe i have dont anything wrong. help me please.

ive been with this girl for 2 months now - two months is NOT a very long time

at first everything was fine and dandy - of course it was, it was the beginning of the realtionship.

but now when i call her, she doesnt answer and turns off her phone - hmm, sounds like something someone would do when they DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOU

this has just started a couple days ago - ok, so a couple of days ago she decided she did not want to talk to you

when i DO get to talk to her she says ill call you back - sounds like she wants to get off the phone quickly

and ends up not calling me back - she never had any intentions of calling you back, she just wanted and easy way of getting ending the phone call with you

so then i call her back after a while and no answer. - of course she doesnt answer - thats because she doesnt want to talk to you - same reason she didnt answer when you called her the first time, same reason she cut your last conversation short and same reason she never called you back

so i don tknow what to do, i try to call her because i want to talk about this problem but she wont even pick up the phone - what problem? the only problem is you are annoying her and making yourself look like a fool by continuing to call her

i dont believe i have dont anything wrong - who cares if you did or didn't? it makes no difference at this point - the relationship is over. she has made that abundantly clear.

leave her alone and go your own way. it's over - go home.

sorry to be so blunt but you don't seem to be getting the message. sure it would have been nice if she said "hey mr threadstarter, I'm not really feeling this relationship any more and I think we should call it off" but she didn't - however, I think her actions speak VOLUMES - don't you?

04hemiboy · 01-04-2006

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ive been with this girl for 2 months now - two months is NOT a very long time

Still long enough to give her a good thrashin and he'd still have her

SilverCivSedan · 01-05-2006

That girl is a bitch and a coward. . .slash her tires. . .

She causes you pain. . .and you cost her at least $200. Sounds okay to me!