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My best friend has a girl he has been keeping on the side for whenever he needs a girl to fall back on. Ive hung out with her a couple times and she is absolutely gorgeous and a blast to hang around. Now here is my problem... Ive really started to take an interest in her, but knowing that my friend still may have a connection to her, ive been holding back a lot. I dont want to screw my friend over, but at the same time, he is just using this girl as a filler for whenever he doesnt have anything else.
Now we were all at my house tonight having a bbq and some drinks, and I started to crank up my game a little bit on her to see what would happen. I invited her over in the near future for some drinks, and we ended up swapping phone numbers to hammer out all the details.
I dont know really how to handle this situation, Ive talked to my friend about it before about moving in on her, and all times hes said it was fine, but at the same time, he was with another girl at those moments. I would like to move forward with this girl as I think she is way too amazing to be wasted as a back burner girl, but at the same time I want to be loyal to my friend as best I can.
The only thing I can think of right now is see how it goes when she comes back over, and if I feel there is something in return I could talk to my friend and see where he stands on it all. Or would bringing her over in the 1st place be a **** move on my part knowing my intentions are not solely to remain friends with her?
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play it out see where it takes u...if it gets serious than take the bait cuz if u homie is just playin her than take over what ever u can do but dont screw over a bro cuz thats bad so just play it out see where it takes u and stay honest with the bro's...always bro's b4 ho's cuz who'll b there when u need'em
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If you're alright mixing your friends milk, go right ahead.
Be the man and tell your friend what your intentions are with his ex, but I think you should do that before you invite her over. On the same note, tell her your intentions, but get her drunk first. Honestly, I've found that nearly all things work out if you just talk to your friends.
If you're alright mixing your friends milk, go right ahead.
Be the man and tell your friend what your intentions are with his ex, but I think you should do that before you invite her over. On the same note, tell her your intentions, but get her drunk first. Honestly, I've found that nearly all things work out of you just talk to your friends.
If your friend said its cool then go for it.If she is his booty call it would put up a big red flag for me as someone who should remain a casual F**k friend and NOT someone you should get emotionally involved with.If you get involved with her and later find out your buddy still knocks her off once in a while you really don't have a legit gripe with him because he hit it first.If your someone who gets attached easily I would think long and hard about every angle before you get your heart broken.I am not trying to seem negative, just giving advice from experience.
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fuck...the hell with your friend. If he's too much of a player to stick with one girl and only keeps her around when he aint gettin any then tell your friend to kindly step aside. If he's any kind of a friend he'll want you to be happy. He clearly doesn't like or respect this girl enough to take it to a level where this should be a problem.
Doesnt matter if he says it cool, he'll still hold a grudge. Makes for an awkward situation. Girls come and go, but real friends are with you for a life time.
Doesnt matter if he says it cool, he'll still hold a grudge. Makes for an awkward situation. Girls come and go, but real friends are with you for a life time.
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Agreed 
