Angry words with thy woman!

samcanadian · 10-31-2004

I've gone out with a few girls, and they've all lasted less then 3 months. This doesn't have much to do with my story, besides the fact that with ALL of these girls, I've hardly ever had an agry word with them. This last girlfriend I had was cool, and we got along really well.....until i dumped her because I dunno why...I just didn't like her anymore (Is that a valid reason? I was up front and honest with her about it...) Anyway...We were driving one day, and she was trying to rub moisturizing cream on her legs while driving (She was driving...she drives an Audi A6 that got totalled by a deer last week, I broke up with her three weeks ago) I was telling her to focus on the road, but she kept trying to rub this stuff on. She nearly hit a car in the left lane, but I reached over and grabbed the wheel and said angrily "BECK! WATCH THE FREAKING ROAD"!!!. She gave me this sorta scared look, and was like "ok...." in a little voice, and took the wheel. I don't think she'd ever heard me talk to her like that, and it might have scared her a little.

Now...

Question for the guys. Do you ever yell at your women...and how do you feel after you do it? To tell the truth, it gave me a bit of a superior feeling, and that kinda scared me because I don't wanna be some weird woman-beater you know?

Let me know, I'd appreciate it.

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Mr.Modify · 10-31-2004

you didn't beat her so how would you be a woman-beater? lol..

sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do....were superior...yell all you want. I do

evilone · 10-31-2004

Same sorta thing happens with me occasionally, but for different reasons....I always feel like shit afterwards, but she always does everything she can to make me feel better....I love my girl, and I always will. It doesn't matter how shitty I get, or what kinda mood I'm in, she always makes everything better.

GreenKermet_Si · 10-31-2004

^^^NO!!!! *lol*

Ok, well, your woman was a ditz. Not many common-sense girls will do that. Neways, yeah, its ok for you to feel that. Girls do whenever we correct your errors too.

And your only on the road of "abusive partner" when you've gotten to the point that your yelling all the time at the little things she does and actually throwing things infront of her and other stupid bs that guys adn girls sometimes do.

^.^ Your ok. You were just telling her to get w/ it and drive her damn car and stop worrying abuot her dry-ass skin. Nothing wrogn w/ that.

SiG · 10-31-2004

I think you were right to yell at her, cuz you didnt insult her, but gave her advice in a firm/loud tone and got your point across and made the world a safer place

I yell at my woman sometimes, but usually for a valid reason. I do feel bad after sometimes, but sometimes im like "she deserves to be told how it is" cuz shes a very naive person who gives ppl the benefit of the doubt WAY too much. She has done so in the past and I dont want it to continue because in the end shes the one who has always got hurt as a result.

MisterTinkerTrain · 10-31-2004

I think you did right. It obviouslt got her attention and she knew you were serious. No worries if she over reacts because of it then she is dumb.

samcanadian · 10-31-2004

Hmmm, well thanks for the Advice.

Man, there should be a whole different forum for Advice! We could call it the Advice foru....oh.....

....yeah...

hustlelikem0fo · 10-31-2004

A discussion with a hoe is short for me. It usually ends up as a five across the eyes

irishtemper · 10-31-2004

Well my cousin got into a fight with his last GF and he told her to " die bitc*, die" and she still called him 3 days later. If you where a nice guy in the begining and yell later on, It makes you look like a jerk. Be cocky and superior in the begining and if you yell later on in the relationship, she will feel bad and probably say that shes sorry. you did right, and maby she will learn next time.

samcanadian · 10-31-2004

See, the thing is that I dumped her three weeks ago. But she's really only the first girl I've scolded like that. I guess I haven't been in relationships long enough to get on that level...

I just think that she knew I was serious, but I know I didn't come off as a jerk because she knew what she was doing was wrong. Yes? No?

irishtemper · 10-31-2004

She most likely knew it was wrong of her. Girls are weird when it comes to a guy yelling at them. If they yell at us, we just say, yeah what ever. But if you yell at a women, lets say she burned the house down, You would be wrong for yelling at her. If she can't take it and admit fault, Then she is not mature enough to have an adult relationship.

samcanadian · 10-31-2004

Yeah, i don't even know what I'm looking for in a girl anymore. No girl I've been with has been good enough...maybe I just need to lower my standards or something?

I want someone who's funny, pretty, and has a good head on her shoulders...haven't met one with all that together yet. The latest one was close...but something happened, and I don't know what. She's trying to make me jealous with another guy right now....or she may actually like him...who knows.

hustlelikem0fo · 10-31-2004

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Originally Posted by samcanadian

Yeah, i don't even know what I'm looking for in a girl anymore. No girl I've been with has been good enough

this is the first sign of homosexuality

good luck dealing with that bud

samcanadian · 10-31-2004

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Originally Posted by HustleLikeM0FO

this is the first sign of homosexuality

good luck dealing with that bud

Holy crap.

you're right.

daydreamer · 10-31-2004

i think you should have yelled pull the car over, i'm driving...if i put lotion on my legs while i was driving i would expect to get b*tch slapped...