how long to wait...

[Cyclosporine]

I'm pretty tired of my almost 3 year relationship with my gf, she asks too much of me, from my body, my mind and my pocket, she makes me feel like if I were marryed for like 50 years, I don't feel like a bf but more like a father, I tryed sooooooo hard to keep this relationship alive, but she's too obnoxious (sp?), she fights with me over every little thing, so I'm pretty sure I'm ending it soon. There's also this other girl, I've come to know her very well and she's soooo different to my gf, she's so sweet, anyway, I have this strong feeling she likes me; I wish I could hit it off with her, but I don't want her as a rebound girl or anything like that, and I don't want to be the type of guy who dumps his girls and goes running with another girl on the same day, I want to be sure if ending the relationship is really what I need. So, how much time do you guys think I can wait to be sure about it and try to hit it off with this other girl???

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[AdmireMyGr8ness]

As long as it takes for you to feel like you can love again w/o feeling grief. If you are ready to love again...just take it slow. Let things happen naturally! Be friends first, friends make better lovers.

I agree. If i were you, i would tell the new girl how you are feeling, after you dump your current girl. Then tell the new girl that you don't want her to be a rebound girl, and you need time to figure out whats best for you. Then, i would just live life...doing things you would normally do. Don't go out of your way to kick it with the new girl. If she genuinely likes you, then she will wait for you to come around. But don't rush things. Friends do make the best lovers/boyfriends. Good luck!

[evilone]

I'm with the ladies on this one man....once it's over with your girl, just let life play itself out....if this new chick really likes you, then like Steph said, she'll wait....and if she's not up for waiting, she might make the first move....but it's all up to you as to how long you want/need to wait.

[bananchik232]

i may be wrong, but i think that you are more then ready to be with someone else. Since it sounds like you dont really like your gf anymore basicly you are already over her. If you feel like the new girl is someone thats better for you, it might be just an opprotunity (SP) for a new GOOD relationship.

u should break up with ur gf. she sounds horrible.

[aznboysrfr]

don't ever settle for somebody. most people settle and end up unhappy

[cdmx]

Im in the same situation as you

except the girl is you, and her b/f is your girlfriend...and im that "new girl" you just met

AHAHA i hope you understand what i just said cause it sounds hella funny

Go with the new girl...dude you should spend your early life like that...i mean the rest of the half of your life is gonna be spent married to someone you love...and if you have those principals till death do you part...
understand what i mean...let her go

[cdmx]

wise what aznboysrfr said...dont live life unhappy