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So i've been seeing this girl for about a month now.
The first week was cool and everything. All the excitement was there for the first week. After that....its all downhill for me.
I have always been the type of guy to have serious relationships and all...never mess around with more than 1 girl at a time , but yea, this one just sux. My last relationship was over 2 years...i was really in love with the girl...its been six months since then, and this is the 2nd girl i've dated.
Now, i'm not really interested in a serious relationship right now...i think she's kinda like a "rebound" type girl for me. It took me a very long time to get over my ex, and the last girl i dated after breaking up with my ex only lasted 2 weeks cause i was still in love with my ex. Now, its like, i just met this girl a little over a month ago, and i have realized that i dont like her in that way. Shes a cool person, and i wouldnt mind being friends with her, but i think she's falling way too fast for me. I just dont feel the same as she does for me.
I dont know what to do right now, i dont wanna hurt her, cause i didnt mean for this to happen. Who woulda knew that in a month, i would have a girl all over me. She calls me a billion times a day, i have to get on another screen name just so i can avoid talking to her. She gets all upset if i dont talk much on the phone or online, cause i have nothing to say!!! I've already talked to her like 3 times before in the same day, and she wonders why i have nothing to say! I'm like, damn, get off my @##@%$
She thinks that we're "together" and crap....but i did not mean for this to happen. I dont know what it is. I consider myself a "nice" guy, and I guess i just treat the ladies well, so she assumed that I liked her and wanted something serious out of this....we've messed around and all that bs, but that was before i knew we were "together."
I kinda thought this woulda been like a summer fling, but boy was i wrong!
Anyone have any advice as to what i can tell her or say so that she wont be too upset. I just wanna let her know i dont wanna serious relationship, and i dont want to hurt her, cause i didnt mean for this to happen.
But im afraid whatever i do may make her really upset. If i had known that messin around with this girl woulda turned out to be like this, some stalker! I wouldnt have.
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keep an eye on your car! tell her to that you don't wanna be with her man...."Hey right now i don't really want to get into anything serious and im sorry i mislead you but im just not ready for a relationship right now" there you go!
Take her somewhere, to eat or something. When you get back to her place, lean over her, open the door for her and say "get out bitch". Hey, worked for me when I wanted to dump my prom date in hs.
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Take her somewhere, to eat or something. When you get back to her place, lean over her, open the door for her and say "get out bitch". Hey, worked for me when I wanted to dump my prom date in hs.
be honest with her and tell her you didnt mean to hurt her but it is for the best
still,watch your car, keep it in the garage if possible...some ppl take rejection bad
keep an eye on your car! tell her to that you don't wanna be with her man...."Hey right now i don't really want to get into anything serious and im sorry i mislead you but im just not ready for a relationship right now" there you go!
I agree with Mr.Modify...Thats the best way to tell the girl...If I was the girl..Thats the way I would want to be told..Good Luck with everything
You have to be firm with a girl like that, at least in my opinion, if you try to coat it with sugar and stuff, she won't get the picture, just straight up tell her that you're not ready for this type of relationship, and you just want to be friends..yeah, look out for your car....
hmmm this worked for my friend. He was sleep walking and peed on the girls bible on her desk at night she new he did it cause she woke up to him pissing on her. He had no clue he was doing it, but it doesn't matter she broke up with him the second she woke him up. Just fake doing that. I am sure if a girl recieved an unwanted golden shower in the middle of the night, then start peeing on her bible won't like it to much.
Give her the "I like you but not in that kinda why" talk, which will lead to you saying " Let's just be friends..." and then move...
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Just tell her your old GF,(i am sure you told her about... her)
Wants you back, and your still in love or something, and she will understand, and leave you alone
Hey man, I just speak the truth. Just stick it in her butt, and hopefully she'll be so repulsed by that action that she'll never want to see him again. Trust me, it works, sometimes.
, but yea, this one just sux. My last relationship was over 2 years...i was really in love with the girl...its been six months since then, and this is the 2nd girl i've dated.
