Advice for Men... Woman and "Men" of 7thgen help me out here...

[ImPulse]

Ok... First, Like 4 days ago, I got totally ****ed up... On tuesday night, I went to a friends party, drank a little, then a lot. I woke up in the hospital with tubes everywhere and basically had alcohol poisoning and seizures to follow. So yea... Another near death experience for me On a good note, While i was falling all over the place a girl was kind enough to help me out... I actually remember her trying her best to take care of me, and just kept talking to me before i blacked out. The girl was really pretty... I remember exactly how she looked (and it wasnt the alcohol.), anyways... When i got home, She even programed her number into my phone. I called her, and we met and hanged out, and we basically "clicked". I took her to the movies friday night, and we both had a connection, so I leaned over and gave her a kiss, then some more. anyways... You can tell that im falling for this girl. ok... This girl basically walked up to someone she didnt know, and took care of me... This girl is full of energy, Very smart, Very kind, amazing personality, and very beautiful. The worst part about everything is... She has had bad experiences with guys in the past. This is whats basically holding her back on trying to get to know me more. This is where I want everyone to really understand... __________________________________________________ ____ This is on a serious level. She has told me some of her past experiences and I couldnt believe them. Some guys really need to learn how to be respectful... Learn how to treat a woman right. Some guys in general really need to ****ing calm the **** down sometimes, and be a real man. If a girl says no to anything... Its ****ing NO. I swear... If I ever found out a friend of mine did something "wrong", I would personally beat the shit out of them. I really dont know what im getting at cause im on this weird medication shit, lol... Im hoping some of the woman and true men here can understand what im getting at. Basically no, means no Never hit a girl... Dont ****ing stalk them, u get the idea

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[ImPulse]

Plus you *******s ruin it for the good guys... Remember that.

Whenever a girl tells me something like this, and I see the guy... I have no problem confronting them (verbally), and if i see any form of "movement", his ass is down.

[AdmireMyGr8ness]

Wow, I had an 'experience' from someone who I thought was into me....hung out a few times and then wham!!! bad experience. I saw this person years later in college, ran to the bathroom and puked. From this 'experience' I took some bad shit along with me...giving in because it'll be taken from me anyhow, thinking not all guys could have this bad trait, and living with it for the rest of my life.
As far as your girl goes...congrats!! Glad someone was willing to take care of you and you are ok!! I sorta understand how she feels.
I think you are making perfect sense and I know exactly what you are trying to say.
Good luck and get well soon!!

[shmik1]

sorry to hear about your near death experience that sux, I agree with ur post, thats an interesting way to meet someone.. pisses me off to see women mistreated and have guys cheating on them I just think how much better I'd treat them.. but most the time there is nothing u can do

sux even worse when girls are hung up on some guy who isnt anything.. or doesnt respect them enough but yet they want him back and think he's so fu©in great

[Blk4blk2K1]

I've seen a trend in nice decent girls always going for the dumbasses and fart nuggets when they really want someone nice. They stay with them and can't explain why. I applaud that there are still many of us decent people out there..

Good luck with this one.

[robbclark1]

Good luck. I think you need to slow down. You just got out of a relationship so give both you and her time.

[88AccordDX]

Sorry to hear about your situation man.

I really dig the smart, sexy and funny girls. But they all have that same trait, they've been mistreated in some way.

And I'd do the same to any c0ckface that does that to a woman.

We dont live in the middle east where that's honored. We live in America.


And I'm glad you've found the girl in the most unusual situation. I'm sure you are reluctant to have someone take care of you. You really do owe her one . Good luck with her man, she'll need some support.

[Boiler_Room]

Damn, you woke up in the hospital??? How much did you drink? I hope you didn't have your car with you that night.

[sivikchik]

Originally Posted by Blk4blk2K1

I've seen a trend in nice decent girls always going for the dumbasses and fart nuggets when they really want someone nice. They stay with them and can't explain why. I applaud that there are still many of us decent people out there..

Good luck with this one.

for SOME odd reason, this sounds like deja vu

[GrayGhost]

The bad part is most of these girls will stay with and defend these guys who treat them like shit.

I was at the mall once several years ago and saw this guy and girl argueing. She was crying and shit, then all of a sudden he hauled off and hit her. And I don't mean open handed slap, he flat out punched her in the face.

I ran over, slammed him against the wall and hit him about 3 or 4 times. I turned to say something to her, and she hits me! She then cussed me up one side and down the other for hitting him. She then helped him up and was saying how sorry she was to him.

So here is a question for the ladies: Why do you stay with guys who treat you like shit?

[monkey]

wow, next time be a little more careful, dude

thank you for posting this, it's nice to know there are still guys out there who understand what's right and what's not even close.


as for girls who stay with those guys, it's all about self esteem...or the complete lack thereof. it's very very sad, and very very frustrating.

[PopcornPlaya]

Did you hit it yet? J/P mang. That sucks to hear you got alcohol poisoning. I've never had it, but I feel like I've been pretty close at times. And yes, I totally know where you're coming from with the whole thing about the good, and pretty, and nice girls liking the bad boys. What is up with that? What every happened to those of us that still open doors, be respectful and all that? Good luck with the girl mang. Hope it all works out for ya. Sounds like karma, or kismet, or whatever you want to call it.

[AR]

so you need advice onnnnnn?

you just had a 4-some not long ago. then, now you go to a party and have some smokin' hot girl watch after you while you got retarded? uhm, my friend.... you don't need advice you need to help US OUT. lmao

Honestly. I don't like men. I'm not at all homosexual, but I was raised around women (my mom, aunt and great grandma). I know my Dad very well but he's no ideal male-rolemodel. The only positive male-rolemodel I had growing up died when I was 11.

Guys do stupid shit, espeically to women. It disgusts me. I mean, taking advantage of woman in a sexual way is disgusting. In other cases, though men still do take advantage of women in other ways (non-sexual ways I mean). An example would be some gung-hoe-over-the-top masculine fnckface coming home from work and complaining about dinner not being on the table or his clothes not being washed the right way. That shit makes me want to buy a gun. Call me crazy, I don't care. I will never have my wife slave over a hot stove night after night. Fnck that shit.

And don't let me start young girls and eating disorders. It throws me in rage. I say this male-dominated media has alot to do with it (magazines, tv and shit).

In any event bro, good post. I'm very sorry to hear that about this girl. I am already enjoying her as a person and it kinda hurts to hear shit like that. Although, you guys have bearly been around eachother to know eachother that well. And it's kind strange she told you her story so soon. You know? That's just me though

[Storm897]

Originally Posted by ImPulse

Ok... First, Like 4 days ago, I got totally ****ed up...

On tuesday night, I went to a friends party, drank a little, then a lot.
I woke up in the hospital with tubes everywhere and basically had alcohol poisoning and seizures to follow.

So yea... Another near death experience for me

On a good note, While i was falling all over the place a girl was kind enough to help me out... I actually remember her trying her best to take care of me, and just kept talking to me before i blacked out. The girl was really pretty... I remember exactly how she looked (and it wasnt the alcohol.), anyways... When i got home, She even programed her number into my phone.

I called her, and we met and hanged out, and we basically "clicked".

I took her to the movies friday night, and we both had a connection, so I leaned over and gave her a kiss, then some more. anyways... You can tell that im falling for this girl.

ok...

This girl basically walked up to someone she didnt know, and took care of me... This girl is full of energy, Very smart, Very kind, amazing personality, and very beautiful.

The worst part about everything is... She has had bad experiences with guys in the past. This is whats basically holding her back on trying to get to know me more.

This is where I want everyone to really understand...
__________________________________________________ ____

This is on a serious level.

She has told me some of her past experiences and I couldnt believe them.

Some guys really need to learn how to be respectful... Learn how to treat a woman right. Some guys in general really need to ****ing calm the **** down sometimes, and be a real man. If a girl says no to anything... Its ****ing NO.

I swear... If I ever found out a friend of mine did something "wrong", I would personally beat the shit out of them.

I really dont know what im getting at cause im on this weird medication shit, lol... Im hoping some of the woman and true men here can understand what im getting at.

Basically no, means no
Never hit a girl...
Dont ****ing stalk them, u get the idea

Glad you ok. Had a similar encounter with death. Started out by downing a 1L bottle of bicardi lemon in 10 minutes (I myself did 8 shots). Ended up in hospital thtaa night (Shady grove hospital) with tubes, etc. Blood alcohol was .32. I still have the paperwork from last year. Since then I have yet to drink more then 3 drinks in a night. Beer now tastes like shit to me and just smelling hard liqueor, especially Bicardi, gives me a head ache.

On the subject of women, I cant agree with you more. No means no.

[BausHaug]

We dont live in the middle east where that's honored. We live in America.

Believe it or not, they actually hung a dude for brutally raping a young woman in Kuwait(She was 19) and damaging her so bad that she'll never be able to conceive.

Secondly, any tard who wants to beat up on a chick doesn't have a set to begin with. The girls who stay with them for the most part may want to try to find the man they fell in love with inside that shell, but to no avail. Girls, there's way too many "nice" guys around to be dating ones that treat you like your an emotional and physical punching bag.