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Old 05-29-2004   #1 (permalink)
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What should i do?

i have fallen hard for this girl. shes half japanese half white, gorgeous, and fun to be around with.
the problem is that she has a bf of 2 years out of state, but shes having trouble with him. all her gf's hate him cause he verbally abuses her and is very protective. i asked her why shes still with him and she says that shes scared to break up with him *hurting his feelings i guess*
well shes goin back to her home town in two weeks for the summer and i really want to move up in this relationship.
should i just remain friends and hope that she breaks up with him? i have cousins over where she lives and i hope i can scrape up enough money to go see them and her during the summer.
or do u think i should make a move?
we went clubbing yesterday and man can she dance.
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if you think she likes you..make a move, then maybe she'll actually break up with him.
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yup thats the best advice ... thats how i got my girl and it turns out that she was miserable in her other relationship and I saved her from it ... now we're goin strong and are on the way to getting married .. so man give it a try because you never do know until you try
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Maybe she's afraid he'll get abusive and hit her or something. Either way she doesn't need a guy like that. Just keep talking w/ her. Tell her how you feel if your a little worried about her. She may be going home to break things off with that guy for you neways. Sorta let her know your gonna miss her if you think she feels the same way.

When I first started dating Gray he gave me a little tiny plushie of Kerberos of "Card Captor Sakura" which at the time was my fave anime then...and I took that little thing with me all the way to Alanta,GA ( I live in TN).

We were still very new in the relationship but that little plushie made me feel so wonderful and safe when I held it. It made me realize how much I'd fallen for him. Because he was wanting me to remember he when I was away. ^.^ very romantic! Good luck with whatever you do, Sweetie!

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ok i went to a hotel party with her last night.

she ended up sleeping with someone else. one night stand kind of thing. im just disgusted by how she could do such a thing.
sigh.
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ok i went to a hotel party with her last night.

she ended up sleeping with someone else. one night stand kind of thing. im just disgusted by how she could do such a thing.
sigh.

move on man...move on!!
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ok i went to a hotel party with her last night.

she ended up sleeping with someone else. one night stand kind of thing. im just disgusted by how she could do such a thing.
sigh.
yeah you don't need someone like that move on
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ok i went to a hotel party with her last night.

she ended up sleeping with someone else. one night stand kind of thing. im just disgusted by how she could do such a thing.
sigh.

it sounds she thinks you to are friends or something ...does she know you want to be serious >.....or does she show she wants to be serious? if you were with her at the party and she slept with someone else ...doesn't sound like to me she wants a relationship...and that's ****ed up.
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no i havent been really agressive with her like that. just because she had a bf. i have some respect for that kind of stuff.
i just thought she wasnt a hoe like that.
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anyways just because she had sex with someone else like you said doesn't neccesarily make her a hoe. I think she was just looking for some comfort since she's in an abusive relationship she probably just wanted someone to feel close to, to comfort her. She obviously doesn't know that you have feelings for her because if she did she wouldn't of done that, you should tell her how you feel anyways.
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anyways just because she had sex with someone else like you said doesn't neccesarily make her a hoe. I think she was just looking for some comfort since she's in an abusive relationship she probably just wanted someone to feel close to, to comfort her. She obviously doesn't know that you have feelings for her because if she did she wouldn't of done that, you should tell her how you feel anyways.
I dunno I think any girl that has respect for her self wouldn't have a one nighter
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well if i knew before she just wanted to have sex...

yeah, i dont respect girls that have one nighters. thats just wrong.
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*huggles* I'm so sorry, Sweetie. That really sucks. The guys are right on this one...time to move on.
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ok i went to a hotel party with her last night.

she ended up sleeping with someone else. one night stand kind of thing. im just disgusted by how she could do such a thing.
sigh.

Dude. Before you even said this, I was going to tell you not to mess with this girl. People that mess around while they're still in a relationship are going to cause you trouble somewhere down the road. I know this from experience.

Leave her alone all together. If she'll sleep around on her current guy, she'll probably sleep around on you or do something equally wh0rish.
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