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well heres what happened, I had the perfect opprtunity to talk to her, so im done lifting and the place is preety much empty so as im walking u to get my keys and im about to say hey and slowly ask her why she said she didnt go to prom(she told my friend she didnt) but right as im like "so why"- this ****ing family came to the front desk asking her about the rock climbing. i was soo pissed, so i kinda just waited around thinking it would be a mintue but after 4-5 i left so i didnt look desperate, whtever, next weekend
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my best approach is to say hey or hi then thats gonna get things started.......it always works for me...then u get her to start talkin about herself and u just sit there and show interest in the things that she does(i.e HER:I babysit at this daycare center YOU: really!! i like kids too...how many kids do u babysit??) something like shows interest in wat she odes on her time....and also try to keep her talkin about herself, this way u learn things about her and she wont get bored..but this is wat i do.....it works all the time for me....and about her number ask her for it wen u r about to leave or if shes about to leave.....wat i do is i ask her out for a little drink then i end up gettin a way to contact her....but if u shy ask for her AIM SN.....this way u can ask ur friends on wat to say and u wont be so nervous about actually speakin to her over da phone or face to face.
just approach her....if shes interested then i dont matter if u mess up.........but if shes not then ur all outa luck...........then again u can learn from ur mistakes
heres what you do, your trying to get things start way too fast. first off just talk, about the gym, about how if you were interested you could get a job there, then lead the conversation to prom if you really want to. but i wouldnt recommend it since first off neither of you went, so she might get upset about it, and you might look like a looser. just talk with her about random things a few times, and then after a few chats just ask for her number to see if you guys can hang out...
lol...are u guys really serious wit this ask for her email or aol stuff...yo, I dont know how ya'll do it down there, but EMAIL...come on now...that's kinda nerdy internet shit right there...LOL
yo, tell her she's a cutie and you're interested in her, and ask her if u can get her number, and maybe u guys can go do something one day...oh and that whole don't call the next day, honestly, thats the biggest misconception in the world, now if u call the next day like 5 or 6 times then you might seem a little NEEDY, but if u feel like calling her the next just ****in' call...the problem wit people is they like to run too much game, and next thing u know, you're watching PORN you downloaded on Kazaa...lol...just be real, be yourself...and that should work, and if it doesnt than **** HER, figuratively, and literally if u can...lol
^ i want to do that just to see what happens... but yeah u are right calling the next day is actually a good thing, itll let her know you were really serious that your interested in her. but like djspot said, dont call too many times. i think twice is pushing it. call once and leave a message if she doesnt pick up, like tell her youll call at another time and call the next day or something. but leave your phone number "if she wants to give you a call". be smooth, not too needy, not too pushy, not too distant.
