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okay, next weekend is Jacon and i was suppose to go to it with a friend of mine. before i get any further..
my girlfriend's name is rachel, she lives about 3 hours away from me, one hour from jacon
the friend of mine's name is jessica, she also lives 3 hours away from me the other direction, and i know she likes me a lot.
before i started dating rachel i mentioned to jessica that i would be going with her to jacon all weekend and she agreed to make three costume for me to wear at the con, one per each day. jessica and i also talked about how all 3 days we would go around in circles and get lost and how much fun we would have.
come around half a month ago, i started dating rachel. and i decided that i was going to stay at jacon for only a day and a half and then go see my girlfriend saturday night and sunday. which ofcourse, i thought it would be a good plan
but then jessica said that she is upset about it because she planned to hang out with me all 3 days, she doesn't know anyone else at the convention and if i leave, she would be all by herself at the con. so i was going to just stay at the con for all 3 days. but now my girlfriend is really upset that i can't go see her, and that she feels that jessica is trying to ruin our relationship because she has a feeling that jessica will try to steal me during the con...
i tried to get rachel to the con, but rachel refused, because she is afraid jessica and her might break out into a fight or what not...
so.. what should i do?
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dude its just a weekend. If your girlfriend won't be flexible enough to do something with her friends and let you do something that come around once in a blue moon ... man you should be looking for someone else.
she should understand that its important to you and just wish you to have fun without the guilt trip.
Stay all 3 days, you had planed to do that from the beginning. Don't cave in.
