girl advice plz?

[ricergribbs]

.heres my problem, im about to graduate and have a month of school left. theres this girl in my history class (which i moved into 2nd semester) that ive fallen head over heels for. now the big part of the problem, we dont really talk, teacher lectures the entire class period and we're busy taking notes. i have a month of school left so not much time. what would you guys say is the best route to get to know her and maybe ask her out on a date eventually? i dont have many opportunities to talk to her so itll be hard. we have lunch together but we sit at different tables with our own friends. her table is all girls, mine is mix guys/girls. shes a junior, im a senior. i know a few of her friends but none in the lunch. ive felt this way about one girl before, and we did some stuff together for like 2 or 3 months, and then we broke up (still not 100% certain why, i think it mightve had something to do with her friends bashing me or something) and i couldnt get over her for half a year+. i really want to somehow ask this girl in my class out, i was wondering, should i just plain old walk up to her in the hall and ask if she wants to go see a movie or something and get to know one another? should i somehow try to talk to her during the class and lunch to at least get on better speaking terms? i like the first option since it leaves things open, if theres a slight chance that she is interested, then she should be open to the idea, at least i hope. i was also thinking that maybe she could bring some of her friends since i know a few of them so if things didnt work out it wouldnt be too akward and she wouldnt be as nervous going somewhere alone with someone she doesnt really know. even though i would make sure to do things that were in public places just so she wouldnt feel uncomfortable. pretty much im open to all forms of suggestions, plz !

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[debbz]

i would say try 2 talk to her etc etc and then closer to the end of school be like hey ur pretty cool wanna hang out sometime and swap numbers then give her a call and invite her out!

[sp3cialk]

^ that sounds like a pretty easy plan.. try that

[CivicGoh]

i say go up to her at the end of class n go ooh im sorry i didn catch the hw may i ask what it was again and then start some general chit chat and then spring the question " would u like to go get some lunch"

[K20me]

Originally posted by CivicGoh
i say go up to her at the end of class n go ooh im sorry i didn catch the hw may i ask what it was again and then start some general chit chat and then spring the question " would u like to go get some lunch"

sounds like a plan casanova! try that one!

[AdmireMyGr8ness]

I agree with the 'catch her after class thing'. I think you have a better opportunity to catch her alone and try to make a move.

Don't know if I'd use the homework line, you should be more upfront than that. Just ask her to do lunch or give you a call.

[Connie]

I disagree with all that noise. Personally, I would see where she plans on going to college and if it is not close to you, let it go. Long distance relationships, especially through college are very very difficult. I would strongly advise not to start a relationship right before you go to college, you could end up mixing up your priorities for the wrong reason. Just my .02 worth.

[AdmireMyGr8ness]

^^Spoken like a true dedicated college student

[PunkingCivic]

I Had this happen when I was in school.
I did the after class thing.
I would highly suggest doing that.

Or just write down a lovely note with your digits / email / instant messanger handle after class , then:

1. stop her after class
2. introduce yourself
3. say:

"I know this is a bit acward, but I would like to get to know you better if possible. Here is a little note with ways you can contact me if you are interested in getting to me too. "

4. wait

5. Make eye contact with her and say hi.

[Connie]

haha, wait. so you talk to her, then wait, make eye contact and say hi again? I am confused!

[ricergribbs]

hmmmmm, i like the note idea. ill try to just get a few more conversations in before i pull any "moves". ill try it in maybe two or three weeks. the note idea kinda leaves it open, doesnt put me out on the line but also doesnt put her in a position where shed feel akward turning me down. keep the ideas coming though guys/gals, theyre turning out pretty good.

[CivicGoh]

rule of thumb from most of my friends that are girls
dont wait over 2 months to ask them out. meaning you guyz are friends and are casually seeing each other but dont wait more than 2 months to ask her out and be exclusive to each other

[Lilies247]

I say just go up to start off a conversation just like the can I borrow your note and give it back to you over lunch. Something like that never really goes wrong.

[ricergribbs]

d*mn, found out yesterday that she has a boyfriend. what would you guys say, i have less then a month of school left to get to know this girl better. im staying in the area for college so ill be able to hang out with her and her freinds so id be able to get to know her better with time. but her boyfriend is one of my friends (we dont hang out but we still talk and shit at school). what should i do? say forget her and move on? or get to know her better and hope that their relationship doesnt work out because i think hes going to college out of state? im not saying that id be hoping to screw my friend over or get with his girl, i wouldnt do that while theyre still dating. but you know, if it happens ill be there.

[Lilies247]

That sucks sorry. Well I would still talk to her but also keep your options open. Don't wait till she's finished with the other guy. Look for another chicky