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I met this girl through a friend and from the start my friend had told me she was interested in me. So i felt so so with her but i continued on with this friendship and we would chill out here and there and watch movies. Then my friend tells me shes so into me and i could tell she was eating right outta my hand it was really quite obvious that she liked me. And as for how i felt i wasnt sure if she was what i would consider gf material for me but i played a long and hinted that i was interested in her as well. then i had some stuff come up in my life and i kinda neglected her for a week or 2 and she tells me shes giong to victoria for a couple days with a friend. So im like ok kool have fun i'll see you when u get back bum! and when she comes back we're chatting and something didn seem right but i couldnt put my finger on it.... so the next day i get bored and im clicking around on xanga.com (online web journals) and to my surprise she has a bf now! my mouth litterally dropped and i was sitting in shock like wtf just happened how could 2 days change soo much! turns out that shes now dating some guy she had a huge crush on back before she met me. but he brushed her off n then she got over him says my friend. Then i came in the pic and everything fell in place and then she was into me and all. then that guy comes around and starts to chill with her like everyday and i dont find this out till well now and now they're dating again even when my friend said that Nicole( the girl that liked me) said she didn want to have anything to do with kevin (her bf now) any more. and during this time she was in victoria i did a lot of thinking and i came to realize that i did have feelings for nicole and i was going to ask her out this week or next but i guess im a little late now. my other friend also says she talked to her and apparently nicole was kinda pissed at me because she wasn't sure how i felt about her. but in all honesty dont u think its kinda early to ask a girl out that uve met only at the most 2 months ago? cuz we really didn know that much about each other. IM totally stunned right now like somthing just knocked the wind out of me and i dont know why she made a huge u turn when it seemed she was so into me. Ex. my friend asks nicole so do u like calvin? and nicole grins... and my friends like mmm well nod ur head if u do.. n then she breaks into a huge smile and nods like craxy"
like im so confused... lil help here?
do u think something sexual happened with them? im thinking she went to victoria with kevin.... cuz i find it hard to believe that if she liked me so much that shed go straight to another guy in a day....
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oh sorry wrong forum.
as far as nicole knows im still clueless about the situation. Im wanting to talk to her about it tonight too ask what happened. and if this does come up and she says she wants to be with me what should i do?
*LOL* Omg, Sweetie, your in a huge pickle with this one.
Yes, you can fall for someone after only meeting them in two months. I meet Grayghost in November of 2002 and by New Years 2003 I knew I loved him.
First of all, I'm sorry to say this is so all your deal. She showed she cared for you and you didn't show her much but a small interest and freindship.
If I was her I probably would of moved on too. Sorry.
But, if she thinks you only wanna be friends then she has every right to jump on to someone else. Maybe this other dude gives her alittle fun moments and she's just using him till she can find someone better.
If you really care about her you need to tell here NOW, because if you don't you'll always wish you had. Just say, "Look, I'm sorry but I needed time to think about it and I realized when you left that I did have real feelings for you. But, if you have a guy now after leaving those 2 days then I totally understand. I just wanted you to know that I still care enough for you to be your friend. "
Then its up to her. If she really cares for you then I bet anything she'll ditch that other dude.
i see what you're saying but im prety sure i made myself clear that i did care for her... like we went to watch dawn of the dead and then later she wanted to go to the park for a walk at 12am so we did and she got a lil cold/scared so i hugged her from behind while we just stood there and watched the city lights. but i dont know it just seemed so sudden....
she probably figured she could get more outta the other guys relationship then with you.
*shrug* I'm sorry though. I've done that before. And its just one of those..."Pick and choose" things...you weigh the pro's and con's of both guys and take your chances.
*huggle* You seem really nice and I mean, maybe theres a reason why all this has happened, ya know? Maybe the "one" is on her way and you need to be alittle more patient. ^.^
well, i dont know what to tell you. But are you sure you actully liked her? and not just wanted her to like you? because you realize you want girls more when they get a boyfriend. *shrug* be her friend, and dont just drop her. If things happen eventually they will, dont stress it. Its only girls, they can come and go.
Originally posted by kTxCiN well, i dont know what to tell you. But are you sure you actully liked her? and not just wanted her to like you? because you realize you want girls more when they get a boyfriend. *shrug* be her friend, and dont just drop her. If things happen eventually they will, dont stress it. Its only girls, they can come and go.
well i finally we managed to talk about it. She never gave me a clear indication to why the sudden change other than she wasnt sure if i liked her or not. We're still on good terms and still friends im not hurt that bad i guess nothing a few beers wont fix up....
But im scared for her because i havent heard good things about this guy shes dating now... but theres not much i can do since shes made her decision already, i just hope everything goes well for her. I guess time for me to go hunting again eh? ahah anyone want ta be my wing man?
What in the world happened!! Advice pls! 
