ok guys i need some advice. i have been with my girlfriend for 6 months and so far its been good. from the beginning she always told me that she would never cheat on me and if she would, she would definately let me know. well yesterday she went to cancun with her best friend. i guess its fair since i went in january with 2 of my friends but it kills me! (and i didnt cheat on her) i love her and the thought of her cheating on me just tears me up. we both had our trips planned a very long time ago so we couldnt cancel them. dammit i hope she stays loyal or if she cheats i need to know. i wouldnt be able to stay with her if she cheated. every ****ing person calls me a **** for letting her go and that shes gona get with other guys. can you guys give me some tips on how to try to get it out of her if shes trying to hide it? sorry for the long post. thanks.
i do trust her but i have seen so many of my friends get screwed over by their girls and they trusted them alot. what makes me so diffrenent that my g/f is actually trustworthy? if everything was as loyal and dependable as my 7thgen, life would be great.
Don't mope around thinking about her cheating on you. Not all girls are out there to just get with random guys, and yes you NEED to trust her. I know its hard and all, but just go out and do your own thing, and before you know it she'll be back and things will be back to normal. Don't fret man, and if you need people to talk to, 7thgen is ALWAYS here for you.
Honestly, she'll probably cheat on you. Mabye you'll see her on Girls Gone Wild lol. Even if she didn't plan on cheating with you, she's going to get so drunk that guys will be able to take advantage of her anyway. Hope that helps.
don't fret it man. Cancun is pretty dead around this time of year so her 'chances' are somewhat less then when you went.
But anyway, why didn't you fool around when you were there? I mean, it's only been six months, that's six month of hooking up with different chicks down the drain right there.
Don't put yourself in a position where a chick is gonna mess with you like that.
If you love her, you should trust her. If you got her body but not her heart, you dont got jack shit. If she does it now, it wont hurt u as bad as if she did it 3 years from now. I'm not saying she would do that, but now is better then later cuz i think it'll hurt less. But if you guys can make it for a long time with no problems, then it'll last. Think of it this way, if she cheats on u, it'll be her loss.
doesn't sound like you trust her if you are thinking of ways to "get it out of her". And if you don't trust her why are you with her? Don't try and say you do or this wouldn't be bothering you so much.
i hear everything you guys are saying. i know that there is a big chance that she will cheat on me. all i need to know is how to try to get it out of her when she gets back next sunday. i think she would tell me but then again she knows i would send her packin and she doesnt want to lose me.
YUL, i hear what your saying but i love the girl. i can't cheat on her if i care so much about her. im just scared of her telling me that she hooked up with some kid and ill feel like an ass because i passed up like 5 chances already. **** guys, im in a really bad situation.
Originally posted by l00pb4k doesn't sound like you trust her if you are thinking of ways to "get it out of her". And if you don't trust her why are you with her? Don't try and say you do or this wouldn't be bothering you so much.
I do trust her ALOT. but this is cancun! i have heard so many stories of girls doing some crazy ass shit and i have seen it myself when i went. thats why im so damn paranoid.
thnx for the kind words lol. shes definately not a **** though. im just overreacting because my damn friends are filling my head with crap. im gona shut up and goto sleep or sumthin. thnx for the advice everyone
First off all you are not making a smart move by letting yourself fall in love like that. You should've cheated on her when you were on vacation because she is probably doing it right now. And don't lie to yourself that you are going to leave her, you are a nerve-wreck right now and everybody can see that you won't do that. All I can say is that you shouldn't check up on what she did on vacation, what happened there didn't have nothing to do with you, be happy that she is back with you and not with the guy(s) from cancun. There is more to a serious relationship than sex. Don't even ask her if she cheated on you, because she will say what you want to hear.
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