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last night...me and a few friends smoked up. i drove him home, we got to his plan, a cop pulled me over for my window tint (3rd time, 2nd time i have been ticketed). he pulled us from the car, we were searched, the car was searched. they found nothing. my parents were called and we both had to be taken home. luckly i got out of it with nothing but a summons for my arrest if the window tint is not removed by wednesday. what sucks now is that i have totally lost the trust my parents had for me. they give me everything, i dont pay for shit, car cell phone, food, shelter, school, nothing, and i took it all for granted and i ****ed up so bad. i could kick my own ass right now.
wtf am i gunna do now? how do i ever get back on my rents good side. what hurt the most was when my mom said..."out of all three of my kids, i had all my hopes in you that u would never screw up like this and that you would take college seriously and keep your priorities straight." i just wanted to die right there, thats the worse when u cant even look your mom in the face cause u feel to damn guilty.
what to do....give me all your opinions, even if u feel like cuttin up on me, i dont give a ****. i want to hear all your comments, good or bad.
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oh ya, they knew, we stunk bad. thats why we were searched and we werent able to drive away. were just luckly they were being cool anbd didnt get us with duis or arrest us.
my parents caught me smoking weed before, it wasn't pretty. ever since then it's been pretty much fly the straight and narrow to keep their trust.
you need to apologize to your parents, tell them that you never thought about how much they did for you until you realized you could lose it. ask them what you can do to regain their trust it will take a while but it needs to be done.
If you work for your posessions, you learn not to screw up because they mean more when you put your blood, sweat, and tears into it. Try and get your parents trust back by earning your keep.
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that sucks man... i can't believe your parents came down on you so hard. mine are a lot more open to everything fortunantly but staying home a little more and having fam. dinners usually brings trust back in my family.
hmm... well you can't roll back the clock so you HAVE to show that you DO take your college seriously... You also have to show them that you take your life seriously and that you will do whatever it takes to be the good son you want to be.
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Yeah I agree with clownprince, sit down with both of your parents and apologize, let them know you know you screwed up. Also bring up to your mom about what she said and that you've been thinking about it.
That happened to my ex boyfriend, him and his friends decided to smoke behind the woods by a car lot and a police car saw them. 3 of them tried to run but 2 was caught and 1 got away but decided to come back. My ex luckily didn't smoke but, they did search his car and test him. He got off really lucky that he didnt smoke that night and he hasn't smoked since because that scared him. His friends however got in deep sh*t with their parents and had to be picked up by them at like 3am in the morning.
Originally posted by blouisgod If you work for your posessions, you learn not to screw up because they mean more when you put your blood, sweat, and tears into it. Try and get your parents trust back by earning your keep.
exactly, i think this would be your best bet and will help them gain some respect for you
Originally posted by TBA having fam. dinners usually brings trust back in my family.
That's very true. Hang around the house more and do chores out of good deeds. Show them you're a good kid, you just need to get your head out of your ass and show them that you really care for what they've given to you.
I dont mean to be a hardass, but life's like that sometimes, you just gotta take it head on.
wow, i totally ****ed up! 
