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Alright everybody heres the deal. I've got a really good friend of mine, she's downright beautiful. Now i know most of you are thinking "damn pat, go tap dat ass, go on, you can do it". well its not like that for one thing, and I've got a little lady for myself.
Back on subject, I'm really worried about her because she is always talkin about how she's ugly. She's not trust me. here's an excerpt(dunno if thats the right word) from one of our AIM conversations.
me: how r ya?
her: alrite
her: u
me: i'm pretty good
me: anythin wrong?
her: just thinking about my ugliness and what i could possibly do to make myself look better
i proceede to tell her she's really pretty and my usual cheer up someone lines (i'm a really nice guy haha). it doesn't work at all, she just says thanks.
anyways i'm really worried she'll become annerexic or bullemic (not the ability to read minds, anyone who's seen Zoolander ), and I really wouldn't want that to happen. I'm sure you guys and gals have all known someone that has gone down that path and I know its not pretty (no pun intended). well is there anything I can do to help her? i'm thinkin about making a CD or something with lots of songs that are about pretty women, and I'll put a little comment next to each song when i right out whats on it.
also i think theres the fact she cant get a boyfriend (yeah pretty ironic doncha think). i just think theres the fact guys dont trust her because of her looks and she's really flirtatious. and i'm thinkin maybe she thinks shes not pretty when really the fact is she's too pretty.
any ideas for my friend?
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i think she says it so that you will tell her how great and beautiful and wonderful she is... she probably knows it but needs the reassurance that everybody else thinks so too... i think u got hosed dude... i dont think theres anything wrong w/ her... and if shes so ashamed of her looks, why is she all flirty?
i know shes your friend and im assuming your still in high school - well high school girls like alot of attention... POSITIVE attention... so uh... try not to kiss too much butt...
just tell her she looks nice in the shirt shes wearing and thats it. if she "seeks" for attention then shes not doing it cuz shes depressed... shes doing it cuz she WAAAAANNNNNTS you to tell her all the great things about her...
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yeah i'm still in highschool. i bet you cant guess my grade. haha.
i dunno it seems more like highschool girl attention. i can tell that type of shit and it just doesn't seem like that. she never wears make up and now she's started wearing a lot and u can tell shes acting differently. i dunno, i just dont want her to end up like one of those girls they show you on the news that are annerexic (yeah i know i'm spelling that wrong).
Originally posted by sivikchik i think she says it so that you will tell her how great and beautiful and wonderful she is... she probably knows it but needs the reassurance that everybody else thinks so too... i think u got hosed dude... i dont think theres anything wrong w/ her... and if shes so ashamed of her looks, why is she all flirty?
i know shes your friend and im assuming your still in high school - well high school girls like alot of attention... POSITIVE attention... so uh... try not to kiss too much butt...
just tell her she looks nice in the shirt shes wearing and thats it. if she "seeks" for attention then shes not doing it cuz shes depressed... shes doing it cuz she WAAAAANNNNNTS you to tell her all the great things about her...
it's true thats what a girl wants just tell the girl that she looks nice
), and I really wouldn't want that to happen. I'm sure you guys and gals have all known someone that has gone down that path and I know its not pretty (no pun intended). well is there anything I can do to help her? i'm thinkin about making a CD or something with lots of songs that are about pretty women, and I'll put a little comment next to each song when i right out whats on it. 
