The way I see it...you have two choices:
1) Deal with it and see how things go, if you get screwed in the end then it wasn't worth it in the first place
2) Leave her over it and possibly screw up something that might teach you more about yourself and spend the rest of your life running from everything that seems like it wont be the perfect situation...live, love, and learn, if not then just get out of the game now and buy a cabin in the middle of BFE
Oh my God, you people are the biggest bunch of non-trusting mofos I've ever seen! Except for Fly, that is.
Look, I'm a guy and I live with one female roommate. We've never had any sexual tension or actions between us. I'm 27 and she's 32. We both have our lives and date whom we want, and we've never looked at eachother with any other intention other than friendship. The women I've dated since living with Monica don't seem to mind that I have a female roommate as I don't mind when women I date have male roommates. It's a part of life. Even if a girl lives with two other women, one of them might bring home some friends and one of them ends up bangging your girl. If she's going to cheat then her living arrangements don't matter, she will find a way.
You guys/girls should just grow up and accept what is best for the other person to do. If she is saving money by having those roommates then it's better for her. If you are insecure about your relationship and you can't trust HER then you need to get up outta that relationship and into one where you can trust your partner. I don't wanna hear that bull shit about how it's not her, it's those guys you don't trust. If your girlfriend is true enough to you and you trust her, then no amount of outside influence will make her cheat. In actuality, when you say you trust her but not other people, it's her that you don't trust.
Oh, and if my roommate's sig. other came to me with some bullshit then he would get his teath knocked in for being such a moron. I don't take anyone's shit in MY house.
Originally posted by silverdevil Oh my God, you people are the biggest bunch of non-trusting mofos I've ever seen! Except for Fly, that is.
Look, I'm a guy and I live with one female roommate. We've never had any sexual tension or actions between us. I'm 27 and she's 32. We both have our lives and date whom we want, and we've never looked at eachother with any other intention other than friendship. The women I've dated since living with Monica don't seem to mind that I have a female roommate as I don't mind when women I date have male roommates. It's a part of life. Even if a girl lives with two other women, one of them might bring home some friends and one of them ends up bangging your girl. If she's going to cheat then her living arrangements don't matter, she will find a way.
You guys/girls should just grow up and accept what is best for the other person to do. If she is saving money by having those roommates then it's better for her. If you are insecure about your relationship and you can't trust HER then you need to get up outta that relationship and into one where you can trust your partner. I don't wanna hear that bull shit about how it's not her, it's those guys you don't trust. If your girlfriend is true enough to you and you trust her, then no amount of outside influence will make her cheat. In actuality, when you say you trust her but not other people, it's her that you don't trust.
Oh, and if my roommate's sig. other came to me with some bullshit then he would get his teath knocked in for being such a moron. I don't take anyone's shit in MY house.
I am in the same situation. My girlfriend is living with three other guys that she knows from school. It sucks. I never thought that I was a jelous guy but I guess I am. I guess it helps that the guys are a bunch of Norwegian fruits(IMO) but it is way better if she lives with girls. The only problem with girls is the cat fighting that will happen, then you will have to listen to that crap
dang, everyones acting like there gonna rape ur gf. calm down. give her some pepperspray. and make sure the doors are locked and she lives on the first floor of the apartment building. and ur numbers on speed dial
Originally posted by slicksivik dang, everyones acting like there gonna rape ur gf. calm down. give her some pepperspray. and make sure the doors are locked and she lives on the first floor of the apartment building. and ur numbers on speed dial
All that shit doesn't work if she's having secret late-nite episodes with those guys on her own free will.
Bottom line is man (and it totally sucks, excuse me for saying it but the truth must be spoken), if she's gonna cheat on you, she's gonna do it whether or not she's living with two guys. If she does, at least you'll know something is going on. Better now than after bein married for 20 years. You have to trust her, because no matter what you do, you can't keep her from doin whatever shes gonna do. Been there myself, and I was wigged out too. If you love her, let her live her life, and hope it involves you.
Well, I think there is only one thing to do now. Fvck the hell out of your girlfriend everyday and as much as possible until she moves in with the guys and then dump her. And when I say "fvck" her I really mean "fvck" her...... try all the freaky shit you've been afraid to try before. There is nothing left to do now, its all over so just play it out.
and fly - if u must call me out, call out all the other people who said they wouldnt like it... ok? other than that, leave me and my posts alone. ithankya.
Originally posted by sivikchik why cant u and her find an apt together?
That reminds me. I had this friend in College who's g/f used a similar situation to get him to commit more to the relationship by getting a place together. She was telling him she was going to move in with a few guy friends. He pannicked, moved out of the house and got an appartment for the two of them.
