Originally posted by CarbonFly Insecure just a little?
girls are whores and guys are pigs. facts of life fly. u get an opportunity and u take it, thats just the way it goes. thats y my bf lives w/ his parents... he cant fcuk them.
Does she know these guys? If she does then there is nothing to worry about, Im sure they're just really good friends...I was going to live w/my best guy friend my senior year...and yes we did try and have a relationship our freshmen year, but it was too weird...my boyfriend knew we were looking for an apartment but he didnt care. He knew that we were just friends and that I loved him (my bf) We didnt end up living together, he stayed on campus...but thats not the point. Shes with you for a reason just remember that
"You shouldn't have to come to me for 'permission' to do anything. You yourself should make the decision whether or not living with two guys is right or wrong...and if it's fair to me."
Or be like.... "It's up to you, but if I were faced with the situation of rooming with two girls, I wouldn't do it for your sake."
This will guilt her into not doing so.
Plus if you allow it then she will cross more borders as your relationship progresses and she will be like "well you let me live with two guys so this isn't any different." Or she will be like "I thought you didn't care about things like this." So all the other things SIMILAR to this situation she will be doing. Then you'll have to make more and more rules and subrules kind of like how the constitution is modified by congress or wutever. You'll be like... "I allowed you to room with two guys but I don't like the way you hug/hang out all the time/drink until you're drunk with them." In the end you will look like a controlling beyoch. You know why? Because that's the way girls think. They will try to cross the borders constantly and have you make the decisions so that if they are unhappy they can call you a bitch for being so controlling/jealous. A girl that doesn't know not to live with two guys while she has a bf is pretty immature I think. The end. These girls like to overanalyze shiet and then put the blame on you.
Your girlfriend is going to be living with too guys ... ok, unless your girlfirend is butt fcuk ugly, those two guys obviously are going to try to get into her pants .... I would either put my foot down or cut my losses.... cause this is only going ot get worse ...
Simple resolution: Come to brazil on vacation with me this summer and we'll find real women. Haha.
Do not under any circumstances ask her how she'd feel if you roomed with two girls. She will naturally say that she woudln't care just so that she can get her way in rooming with two guys. Rather, say that you would not do such a thing if you were in her situation. That way she will get guilted and you will come off looking as the nice guy. It's all about the way you state things that give the most effect.
If you say that bit about "how she should know what the right thing to do is," you will also come off looking mature.
I would not go for that. Doesn't listen to these people who say you have no right to make demands. You do have a right to tell her you won't date someone who's living with two guys. If she insists on living with them, break up with her, you don't need that stuff.
it's spelling for disaster...
put it in your place, you are living with a girl on your apartment.
she just had a bad day with his bf..
you offered something to ease off her grudges, drinks etc. etc..
binggo!!!
if you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen.
